MAU A M'BAIBULO AMENE MUNGAGWIRITSE MTIMA

Bible Verse Broken Heart Relationship







Yesani Chida Chathu Chothetsa Mavuto

Kodi Baibulo limati chiyani za kusweka mtima?

Sungani ndi wokondedwa wanu pabedi pansi pa bulangeti laubweya kwinaku mukuwonera 'Chikondi, Kwenikweni' kwanthawi ya makumi awiri. Chikondi ndichinthu chabwino kwambiri mpaka chimatha. Ndi misozi m'maso mwanu, mumakhala pafupi ndi mnzanu wapamtima mukudya mbale ya Ben & Jerry yopanda kanthu. Koma… Mulungu akuti chiyani za maubale osweka?

Mulungu amadziwa momwe mukumvera kuposa wina aliyense

Kodi mumadziwa kuti Mulungu nthawi zambiri amayerekezera chisoni chake chokhudza anthu otchulidwa mBaibulo ndi chisoni cha chikondi? Mwachitsanzo, aneneri nthawi zina amayerekezera Israeli ndi mkwatibwi wonyenga. Zimamverera mofanana ndi momwe Mulungu amamvera akakanidwa ndi anthu. Ngati mwasweka mtima, ndiye kuti mukufanana ndi Mulungu. Ndizolimbikitsa kudziwa kuti Amamvetsetsa ululu wanu!

Mawu a Mulungu ndi amphamvu kwambiri.

Vesi losweka la mtima wa bible. Pemphani Mzimu Woyera kuti akuthandizeni ngati mutabwereza mawuwa mokweza kapena modekha. Lembetsani mtima wanu wonse, chifukwa ngati mtima wanu uli wodzazidwa ndi chowonadi, Mulungu adzakudalitsani kwambiri. Kupatula apo, mtima wanu ndiwotseguka kuti mukhulupirire ndikudalira ndikupanga njira zoyenera ndikulandila kuchokera kwa Mulungu.

'Ndondomeko yanga ndiyomveka: Ndikufuna chisangalalo osati ngozi kwa anthu anga. Tsogolo labwino ndikulonjeza. Aliyense wondifunafuna ndi mtima ndi moyo adzandipeza. Ndikulonjeza kuti ndidzapezeka. (Yeremiya 29:11)

‘Ambuye ndiye mbusa wanga, sindidzasowa kalikonse. Amandibweretsa kudambo lobiriwira, ndiroleni ndipumule pafupi ndi madzi. Amandipatsa mphamvu ndipo amanditsogolera m'njira zabwino, monga analonjezera. Ngakhale ndidutsa chigwa chakuda kwambiri, sindikuyenera kuopa chilichonse, chifukwa Inu, Ambuye, muli ndi ine, Ndodo yanu ndi ndodo yanu zimanditeteza. Ambuye, mwandiitanira ku gome lanu, Otsutsana nane ayang'ane nawo; Mumadzoza mutu wanga ndi mafuta (chithunzi cha Mzimu Woyera) Mumadzaza chikho changa mpaka chigumula. Ndikuwona ubwino wanu ndi chikondi chanu, moyo wanga wonse, nditha kukhala m'nyumba mwanu, masiku akudzawa. '
(Masalmo 23)

Ingopemphani ndipo mudzalandira, ndipo chisangalalo chanu chidzakhala changwiro.
(Yohane 16:24)

‘Mulungu ndi wabwino, woleza mtima komanso wachikondi. Amachotsa machimo athu, ndikuwataya kutali ndi ife, monga kum'mawa kuli kumadzulo. Monga atate amakonda ana ake, Momwemonso amakonda iwo amene amamulambira. Amadziwa kufooka kwathu, Amadziwa kuti ndife fumbi chabe.
(Kuchokera ku Salmo 103)

Akhozanso kugwiritsa ntchito ena mwa iwo

Inde! M'Baibulo muli nkhani zingapo zakusweka kwa mtima (popanda matanthauzo amitundu yonse, koma kungolilani chifukwa zatuluka). Mwachitsanzo nkhani ya Tamara ndi Amnoni. Amnoni anali wokonda kwambiri Tamar wokongola ndipo sanafune kalikonse kuposa kukhala naye. Yaikulu woyang'anira chiwembu adabwera pomwe adamugwirira kenako mwadzidzidzi adayamba kumuda.

Izi zinali zosamvetsetseka kwa Tamar ndipo adamva wosweka mtima pamene adamponya kunja kwa chitseko. Mwachitsanzo, akuti pa 2 Samueli 13: Mtumiki wa Amnoni atamuika panja ndikutseka chitseko kumbuyo kwake, adadziponya fumbi pamutu pake (chimenecho chinali chizindikiro chachisoni m'Baibulo!) Ndipo adang'amba chovala chake chamitundu yambiri. Anagwira mutu wake ndikunong'oneza kunyumba.

Simudzakhala nokha (ngakhale zimamveka choncho)

Mtima wa Mulungu umakhudzidwa ndi iwo omwe ali ndi mtima wosweka! Izi nthawi zambiri zimafotokozedwa momveka bwino m'Baibulo, monga Masalimo 51 : Nsembe ya Mulungu ndi mzimu wosweka; Inu Mulungu, simudzaupeputsa mtima wosweka ndi wosweka. Izi zikutanthauza kuti mtima wa Mulungu ndiwodzala ndi chisoni.

Sanatumize Yesu kuti adzasenze mphotho ya machimo athu okha, komanso kuti adzalengeze Uthenga Wabwino wa Chipulumutso. Izi zikutanthauza kuti Yesu anabwera kudzachiritsa odwala, komanso kutonthoza iwo omwe ali ndi mtima wosweka!

Mtima wosweka ungakumvetsetseni chisoni kwambiri ngakhale kukudwalitsani.

Ubale ndi chinthu chokongola kwambiriMulunguwatipatsa padziko lapansi. Chifukwa Mulungu ndiyechikondi, Adatilenga ngati anthu achikondi omwe amafunikira chikondi koposa china chilichonse. Palibe chomwe chimatipangitsa kukhala osangalala, olimba komanso athanzi ngati chikondi. Chikondi ndi mphatso yayikulu ya Mulungu kwa ife. Kusweka mtima kungapangitse wina kukhumudwa kwambiri mpaka kudwala. Mumalandira bwanji machiritso?

Chifukwa tikudziwa kuti titha kulandira chikondi muubwenzi ndi mnzathu, nthawi zambiri timakhala tikufunafuna.

Ndi ochepa mwa ife, komabe, omwe amakwanitsa kukumana ndi bwenzi labwino pamoyo nthawi yomweyo. Ambiri akhala ndi zibwenzi zingapo, zomwe mwatsoka zidasweka, pambuyo pake tidatsala ndi mtima wosweka. Inenso ndakhala ndimagulu osiyanasiyana ndisanakumane ndi mkazi wanga wabwino modabwitsa. Koma ndidakumana ndi zokhumudwitsa zisanachitike. Pambuyo pazaka zochepa, Mulungu adayamba kuyankhula ndi mtima wanga kuti ndikufunafuna chikondi ndi munthu pomwe anthu sangandipatse chikondi ichi.

Mulungu adandiwonetsa kuti ndi Iye yekha amene angandipatse chikondi chomwe ndimafuna.

Kenako ndinayamba kuzindikira kuti zikutanthauza chiyani kuti Mulungu ndiye CHIKONDI. Adatilenga ngati anthu omwe choyambirira amafuna chikondi ndipo ndani amene adzachite chilichonse m'miyoyo yathu kuti alandire chikondi. Koma anthu ndi osowa komanso opanda ungwiro monga ife. Ngati tikufuna kudzaza mitima yathu ndi chikondi chaumunthu, tidzakhumudwitsidwa kwambiri.

Ndi Gwero la chikondi lokha, Mulungu Mwiniwake, yemwe angadzaze mitima yathu ndi chikondi chosatha.

Nthawi zonse ndimathawa kusungulumwa, maubale ndi atsikana. Pokhapokha nditayesetsa kudzipereka kuchikondi cha Mulungu ndipomwe ndidapeza chisangalalo chomwe ndakhala ndikulakalaka kuyambira kale. Zinali zovuta kwambiri, chifukwa sindimadziwa Mulungu mokwanira kuti ndidziwe kukula kwa chikondi chake kwa ine.

Tsopano ndadziwa kuti palibe chinthu china chabwino kuposa Mulungu wokondadi. Tsopano ndikumva kuti mtima wake ndi wofewa komanso wokoma komanso kuti, ngakhale ali oyera kwambiri, ali ndi mphamvu, ukulu koposa zonse cikondi ndipo amafuna kwambiri kuti agawane chikondi chake nafe.

Nditatha kudzaza zosowa zanga zamalingaliro ndi chikondi cha Mulungu, motero kukhala ndi maziko olimba a mtima wanga, Mulungu amatha kundikonzekeretsa kukumana ndi mnzanga wa moyo wanga. Msonkhanowu usanachitike, komabe, adayenera kundimasula zokumbukira komanso kulumikizana ndi maubwenzi am'mbuyomu. Ndinalumikiza malingaliro anga, moyo wanga ndi thupi langa kwa atsikana. Mulungu adandiwonetsa kuti ndiyenera kumasuka ku zomangira izi, chifukwa zitha kukhala chopinga kwa mnzanga wamtsogolo.

Chifukwa akhristu ambiri amakhudzidwa ndi izi, ndakhazikitsa njira zingapo zotsatirazi zokuthandizani kuti muchiritse mtima wanu wosweka.

Ndikumvetsa kuti ena mwa malangizowa angamveke achilendo kwa inu. Simuyenera kundichotsera nthawi yomweyo. Koma ndikukhulupirira kuti zomwe ndikufotokozazi ndizofunikira zenizeni, mwatsoka, ndi anthu ochepa omwe amadziwa. Timakhala mopitilira muyeso ndipo timaganizira kwambiri za padziko lapansi, zinthu zakuthupi, osazindikira kuti ndi gawo lauzimu lomwe limayang'anira chilichonse. Tengani kamphindi kuti mutsatire izi. Ndalandira kale maumboni ambiri kuchokera kwa anthu omwe adamasulidwa kwambiri ndikuchiritsidwa.

1) Dulani mgwirizano wamoyo

Baibulozimasonyeza kuti munthu ndi woposa thupi. Ndife mzimu, tili ndi mzimu ndipo timakhala m'thupi. Moyo wanu wamalingaliro umachitika mu moyo wanu. Ngati muli ndiubwenzi ndi winawake, kaya mukugonana kapena kukhudzika mtima, kulumikizana kudzapangidwa pakati pa moyo wanu wamaganizidwe ndi moyo wamnzanu. Moyo wako umalumikizidwa ndi moyo wa mzake. M'malingaliro awo anthu ambiri amalumikizana kwambiri ndi munthu yemwe salinso naye pachibwenzi. Izi zitha kupangitsa kumva kuwawa komanso kutayika.

Ngati mukumvererabe kuti mukulakalaka winawake wakale, ndibwino kuti muswe mtima. Mumachita izi popemphera komanso ndi ulamuliro kutiYesu Khristuwapereka kwa aliyense amene akhulupirira Iye. Dzinalo la Yesu Chistus ndi dzina lapamwamba kwambiri kumwamba ndi padziko lapansi, limatero Baibulo. Mukamapemphera, mumapemphera m'dzina la Yesu, kuti muwononge mzimu uliwonse womwe Mulungu safuna, kuti mukhale mfulu. Kodi mumachita bwanji izi?

Lankhulani motsimikiza kuti mdzina la Yesu Khristu mumasweka moyo ndi ubale wakale. Mwachitsanzo: M'dzina la Yesu Khristu ndidula mgwirizano wamoyo pakati pa ine ndi (dzina).

Ambiri amasulidwa atachita izi. Malingana ngati 'simudule' ubale wamzimu mdziko lauzimu, moyo wanu wamaganizidwe ukhoza kukhalabe womangika pamlingo winawake kwa bwenzi kapena bwenzi lanu lakale. Zili ngati kudula chingwe cha umbilical kapena chingwe. Kulumikizana kosaoneka komwe kunalipo kudulidwa. Sikuti aliyense amamvetsetsa kukula kwa moyo wathu, koma ndichowonadi. Ichi ndi gawo lofunikira, ngati mukufuna kuchiritsidwa kwa mtima wanu wosweka.

2) Kumbukirani gawo lililonse la mtima wanu

Gawo lachiwiri la moyo lomwe ambiri sakulidziwa, koma lomwe limakhala lochitikadi, ndiloti ndizotheka kuti gawo lanu lidzatsalira ndi enawo. Mwakhala olumikizidwa kwambiri mumtima mwanu ndipo mwadzipatsa nokha kwa mnzanuyo. Mukupemphera ndikotheka kukumbukira gawo lanu. Mwachitsanzo, mutha kupemphera motere: M'dzina la Yesu Khristu, ndikuyimbira gawo lililonse lomwe ndatsala nalo (lembani dzina)! Mutha kuchita izi mutatha kuswa mgwirizano wamoyo.

Choyamba mumadula kulumikizana kwa uzimu kenako mumadziyitanitsa chidutswa chilichonse chomwe mwapatsa mzake.

Ena angadabwe ndi izi chifukwa mwina simunamvepo izi kale. Koma zimagwira ntchito. Baibulo limalankhula za zenizeni zauzimu zomwe ndizamphamvu kuposa zogwirika. Mumadzipereka nokha, mtima wanu, moyo wanu, kumverera kwanu, mkati mwanu kwa winayo. Mukachoka gawo lina la mtima wanu limakhala ndi munthu winayo. Kumbukirani gawo lililonse laumwini ndikutumizanso chilichonse kwa iye. Chitani izi mokweza komanso mdzina la Yesu Khristu. 'M'dzina la Yesu Khristu ndimaitana gawo lililonse la (dzina). Ndipo ndimatumiza gawo lililonse la (dzina) kwa iye. Chitani izi kwa munthu aliyense amene mwakhala mukugwirizana naye.

3) Osasunga zokumbukira

Kukumbutsa zokumbutsa, monga zithunzi, mphatso, zovala, mameseji ndi zina zotero, ndi chifukwa chofunikira chomwe chimapangitsa kuti anthu asalandire machilitso kuchokera m'mitima yawo yosweka. Anthu ena amakhala ndikulira moyo, chifukwa amasungabe zokumbukira. Ngati mukufuna kulandira machiritso, khalani okhwima ndi kuyeretsa bwino sitimayo. Pamene ndinali pachibwenzi chomwe sichinandichitire chilichonse, winawake anandiuza mawu opulumutsa moyo awa: Muyenera kuyikamo MES. Mchiritsi wofatsa amapanga zilonda zonunkha. Pokhapokha mutaphwanya kwambiri mudzakhala omasuka.

Ngati musunga china chake kwa mnzake, musunga chibwenzicho ndipo simudzakhala mfulu kwathunthu kuubwenzi.

Kulakalaka zokumbukira za mnzake kungakhale mtundu wa chigololo. Simukwatiwa ndi munthu ameneyo, koma mumakhalabe ndi chikondi champhamvu. Mmasuleni munthu winayo ndikudzimasula nokha. Chotsani hard drive yanu ndikuyambiranso. Chidziwitso: ndizo zinthu zomwe mumakonda kwambiri zomwe zimatsimikizira kuti mgwirizano ukupitilizabe. Chifukwa chake ikani zikumbukiro zomwe mumazikonda.

4) Pewani malingaliro

Zomwe zimawavutitsa ambiri banja litasokonekera ndi malingaliro azisangalalo zomwe adakumana limodzi. Mukapatsa malowedwe amtunduwu, amakhala cholepheretsa kukula kwanu kwa bwenzi lanu lenileni. Osapereka malo okumbukira zotere. Osatengera chizolowezi cholakalaka nthawi yosangalala, chifukwa zimangopweteka. Onetsani malingaliro anu pachibwenzi chanu chakale. Khalani osasinthasintha pankhaniyi.

5) Perekani chikhululukiro

Chachinayi chachiritso mtima wanu ndi kukhululuka. Ndikofunika kuti mudzikhululukire nokha komanso ndi munthu ameneyo pazolakwitsa zomwe zachitika.

Kupereka chikhululukiro ndikofunika kwambiri kuti muchiritse.

Ngakhale wina atakuchitilani nkhanza: bola ngati simukhululuka, chilondacho chipitilirabe. Chifukwa chake, khululukirani winayo ndi inu eni. Chitani izi mwachindunji, potchula mayina ndi zochitika. Pangani kukhululuka ngati konkriti komanso mwatsatanetsatane momwe mungathere. Izi zimakupulumutsani ku zowawa ndi kuwawa zomwe zimadza chifukwa chokhumudwitsidwa kwakukulu.

Ikhoza kukuthandizani kutenga pepala ndikulemba zonse zomwe zimakupsetsani mtima kapena kukhumudwa. Kenako pempherani ndi pepalalo ngati chitsogozo, ndipo lembani zonse mfundo ndi mfundo ndikunena (makamaka mokweza) kwa Yesu Khristu: Ambuye Yesu, ndakhululukira (dzina) la (lembani mfundo iliyonse). Imeneyi ndi gawo lofunikira kutsuka nyumba yanu yamkati. Zili ngati kuyeretsa nyansi. Mumasunga kuyeretsa kwakukulu mumtima mwanu ndipo mumachotsa zowawa zonse ndi zisoni. Simukuvomereza zomwe zidachitikazo, koma mumalepheretsa kuti zizikhala mozungulira m'moyo wanu ngati zovuta. Mukakhululuka mumayika zinthu kutali ndikudzimasula.

6) Funsani chikhululukiro

Mukazindikira kuti mwachita zinazake zomwe zakhumudwitsani anzanu, limbani mtima kuti mupepese. Kudzichepetsa nokha ndi chinthu chabwino kwambiri chomwe mungachite. Zimaphwanya kunyada kwanu ndipo zimabweretsa machiritso ambiri, kwa inu nokha komanso kwa munthu winayo. Mulungu amalemekeza izi modabwitsa.

Pali anthu ochepa omwe ali owona mtima kuti apepese. Komabe ndicho chinthu chaumulungu kwambiri chomwe mungachite monga munthu.

Zimaphwanya zoipa zambiri ndipo zimatsegula khomo lalikulu lochiritsidwa ndi madalitso a Mulungu. Zimatengera kuyesetsa, zomwe zimangotsimikizira kufunikira kwake ... Kunyada kumawononga zochuluka m'miyoyo yathu. Zochuluka… Ngati munganene kuti pepani, mwatsegula kumwamba… Choncho khalani owona mtima kwa Mulungu, inunso ndi anzanu.

Funsani Mzimu Woyera kuti akukumbutseni zonse zomwe zimapweteketsa mnzake. Lembani zinthu izi. Kenako sonkhanitsani kulimbika mtima kwanu ndikufunsani (mwakulemba, patelefoni kapena mwayekha) kuti akhululukire zomwe mwakhumudwitsazo. Mudzawona kuti zozizwitsa zimachitika mukamachita izi. Ndi ochepa omwe amachita ndipo ichi ndichimodzi mwazinthu zomvetsa chisoni kwambiri padziko lapansi, kuti anthu nthawi zambiri amakhala onyada kapena amaopa kufunsana kuti akhululukidwe. Mukachita izi, Mulungu adzakudalitsani modabwitsa.

7) Dalitsani winayo

Gawo loti mupereke ndikupempha chikhululukiro ndikudalitsa winayo ndi mtima wanu wonse ndi zabwino zonse zomwe Mulungu akufuna kutipatsa tonse. Ngakhale mutakhala okwiya kapena okhumudwa: musalole kukwiya kapena kuwawidwa mtima kulowa mumtima mwanu. Mkwiyo ndi wamunthu ndipo mutha kuwusunga bwinobwino. Koma onetsetsani kuti mwafika pamlingo wokhululukira munthuyo ndi mtima wonse komanso kuti mukufunitsitsa zabwinozo. Izinso zimabweretsa machiritso akulu mumtima mwanu. Ngati winayo wakupwetekani, simukuvomereza mawu ndi zochita zake, koma mumasankha kuthana ndi choyipa mwa chabwino. Chifukwa chake dalitsani enawo, ndi ubwino wa Mulungu. Mukatero Mulungu angakudalitseni kwambiri.

Musabwezere choipa ndi choyipa; Mukatchedwa mayina, musabwezere. Ayi, koma khumirani anthu zabwino; ndiye kuti inunso mudzalandira zabwino zomwe Mulungu anakuyitanani.(1 Petulo 3: 9)

8) Khulupirirani Mulungu

Chinthu chovuta kwambiri kwa tonsefe ndindiyetMulungukuti adzatipatsadi chimwemwe. Komabe Mulungu sichina koma chikondi, chifundo, kumvetsetsa, kukhululuka, chifundo, kubwezeretsa, chiyembekezo, ndi zina zotero. Chifukwa chake, ndikofunikira kuti mudzilowetse mu choonadi cha mawu a Mulungu. Malingaliro anu amatseka chisomo chochuluka cha Mulungu. Izi zikugwira ntchito kwa Mkhristu aliyense padziko lonse lapansi, munthawi zonse.

Malingaliro anu amaletsa kuyenda kwa chikondi ndi ubwino wa Mulungu.

Njira yokhayo yosinthira ndikutenga Mawu a Mulungu. Pansipa ndikupatsirani zinaMalemba a m'Baibulozomwe zingakuthandizeni kuti mulowe mkatiChikondi cha Mulungu, ubwino, kumvetsetsa ndi kukhululuka. Mukamachita izi pafupipafupi ndikuzipanga kukhala chizolowezi chamoyo wanu, mudzadabwa kuti Mulungu adzakupangitsani bwanji kukhala opambana.

7) Landirani pemphero la machiritso

Pitani kumisonkhano yachikhristu komwe anthu angakupempherereni kuti muchiritse mtima wanu wosweka. Nthawi zonse timapanga misonkhano, pomwe mazana a anthu amapezekapo ndipo ambiri amakhudzidwa ndikusintha kwa moyo ndi chikondi cha Mulungu. Palibe chabwino kuchiritsa mtima wako kuposa kudzazidwa ndi chikondi cha Mulungu.

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