Kodi Baibulo limati chiyani pa nkhani yokhululuka chigololo?
Pakati pa Akhristu amatchalitchi ndi zipembedzo zosiyanasiyana, Akatolika kapena ayi, pali zopeka zambiri komanso zambiri zabodza zokhudza Ukwati wachikhristu ndi ake maudindo . Pulogalamu ya Baibulo ndi zomveka bwino pankhaniyi; zambiri zomwe titha kuzipeza lero zathandizidwa ndi maphunziro amisala .
Chifukwa chake ndizosangalatsa kupanga kusanthula zomwe zili m'ndimezi, zomwe zithandizenso kwa iwo omwe ali ndi mavuto pachibwenzi ndipo akuyenera kuthana kapena kukhululuka kusakhulupirika mosasamala kanthu kuti ali ndi zikhulupiriro zachipembedzo kapena ayi.
Makhalidwe aukwati wachikhristu:
Banja lachikhristu silitha; ndikudzipereka kwa moyo wonse komwe munthu amapanga kwa mnzake. Ndi lonjezo lobwezera kudzikonda, ulemu, ulemu, ndi kudzisamalira munthawi zonse mpaka nthawi yomwe mudzaphedwe.
Komabe, lonjezo lakubwezerana ili kuti? Paliponse, chifukwa si Mulungu amene amakwatirana ndi anthu, ndi anthu awiriwo amene amasankha kukwatirana mwaufulu komanso mwaufulu, Mulungu amangodalitsa ubalewo ndipo amayembekezera aliyense molingana ndi lonjezo lomwe adalonjeza, kuti azimvera wina ndi mnzake mwachikondi, kuthandizana ndi kuthandizana m'zonse.
Musaiwale izi: MWAGANIZIRA ZOKWATIRA , chinali chisankho chanu kudzipereka nokha moyo wanu wonse, palibe amene anakukakamizani, ndipo Mulungu sanakufunseni, mpaka mtumwi Paulo atalimbikitsa kuti musakwatirane ndi iwo omwe ali ndi mphatso yakudziyang'anira.
Mwamuna ndi mkazi wachikhristu sangathe kupatukana ndi akazi awo; Mulungu amalamula izi motere kuti wosakhulupilira akhale ndi kuthekera kosandulika kudzera mwa wokhulupilira mnzake. Komabe, wosakhulupirira atha kusiyanitsa akafuna; ndi chisankho chake (1 Akol. 7:15) .
Nayi imodzi mwamasulidwe olakwika kwambiri komanso owononga kwa Akhristu ambiri omwe amaganiza kuti ayenera kumangirizidwa kwa moyo wamwamuna kapena wamkazi amene wawapweteka.
Tiyeni tikonze china chake: Ngati wosakhulupirira amasiya Mkhristu, womalizirayo alibe chochita kuti amupewe; sangathe kumukakamiza kuti akhale pambali pake, eti? Ndiye kuti ilibe udindo, chifukwa chake amapatukana chifukwa chosiya woyamba.
Nkhani ndiyakuti, sitimvetsetsa tanthauzo la kusiya. Timakonda kuganiza kuti kusiya ndi kupatukana kwakuthupi, kusiya nyumba ndikusiya munthu winayo; Koma kusiyidwa kuli ndi mitundu yambiri, mwachitsanzo , Ndimatha kusiya wina ndikupitiliza kukhala nawo, ndimachotsa chikondi changa, chidwi changa, ndikuchita mphwayi, kumeneko ndikusiya; Ngati ndimenya mkazi kapena mwamuna wanga, ndikufotokozera mtundu wina wamasiyidwe, popeza ndasiya kumuteteza kuti asamupweteke, ndipo ngati ndine wosakhulupirika, ndamusiyanso.
Pali azimayi achikristu ambiri omwe amavutika ndi amuna awo omwe amawamenya, kapena omwe ali osakhulupirika kwa iwo mobwerezabwereza, kapena omwe amawachitira nkhanza. Akazi achikristu awa amaganiza kuti sangathe kupatukana ndi amuna awo chifukwa Mulungu salola.
Tiyenera kumvetsetsa izi: kumenyedwa, kusakhulupirika, kunyozedwa, komanso kusalabadira; zonse ndizofanana ndikusiya. Chifukwa chake, Mkhristu wozunzidwayo samamasulidwa kudzipereka kwake ngati angafune; Mulungu sakakamiza aliyense kuti akhale pachibwenzi chankhanza.
China chake chiyenera kufotokozedwa momveka bwino: Mkhristu sangakane mnzake pa zifukwa zina osati chifukwa cha chiwerewere (Mat. 5:32) , koma molingana ndi zomwe mtumwi Paulo akunena (1Ako. 7:15) , wosakhala Mkhristu akhoza kukana mkazi wake nthawi iliyonse akafuna, ndipo uku ndiko kukana kumene tayankhula kale, kuchitira nkhanza, kusakhulupirika, kunyalanyaza bwino.
Ndiye kuti, m'mikhalidwe iyi, Mkhristu adakanidwa kale, chifukwa chake kupatukana kapena kutha kwa banja Mgwirizano wachitika kale, ndipo Mkhristu tsopano ali ndi ufulu wosankha. Kodi Mulungu akufunsa chiyani pamenepa? Khululukirani, yesetsani kupulumutsa banja lanu, koma Mulungu amadziwanso kuti nthawi zina sizingatheke ndipo zimakupatsani ufulu wosankha.
Ndimalongosola mwanjira ina: Ambiri amadabwa chifuniro cha Mulungu pa banja langa? Chifuniro cha Mulungu chilibe chochita ndi banja la wina aliyense. Chifuniro cha Mulungu nthawi zonse chimakhudzana ndi zinthu zamuyaya, ndipo ukwati suli wamuyaya (Mt. 22:30) . Inde, Mulungu ali ndi chidwi ndi moyo wanu ndipo amafuna kuti ukhale wabwino koposa, koma chifuniro cha Mulungu, cholinga chake, cholinga chake ndi cholinga chake chachikulu ndikupulumutsa anthu.
Kotero tiyeni tifunse funso kachiwiri: Kodi chifuniro cha Mulungu ndi chiyani pa banja langa? Yankho ndi ili: Mulole mukhale ndi mtendere, bata, mphamvu, chilimbikitso, ndi kukhala okonzeka kudandaula za dongosolo la chipulumutso; Kodi ubale wanu wapano ukulolani izi, kapena ukukhumudwitsa? (Mat 6:33) .
Zotsatira zakusakhulupirika m'banja lachikhristu:
Kusakhulupirika kumathetsa banja chifukwa chiwerewere chimatigwirizanitsa ndi munthu ameneyo (1Ako 6:16) ndipo Mulungu sakakamiza aliyense kuti akhalebe pabanja atamva kuwawa ndi zowawa zomwe zimamupangitsa. Yesu ananena momveka bwino kuti ichi ndi chifukwa chomwe chimapangitsa kuti banja lithe (Mt 5: 32) .
Kukhululuka kusakhulupirika m'banja lachikhristu:
Kukhululuka kumene Yesu adaphunzitsa ndi kwa zolakwa zonse zomwe munthu angatichitire, ndipo izi zimaphatikizapo kusakhulupirika m'banja, ndiye kuti, Mkhristu ayenera kukhululuka kusakhulupirika.
Izi sizitanthauza kuti mukuyenera kupitiliza kukhala ndi munthu yemwe anali wosakhulupirika kwa inu , kusakhulupirika kumathetsa banja ndikulola mkhristu kupatukana ngati angafune, kapena mutha kusankha kupitiliza kukhala ndi mnzanu. Mulimonsemo, muyenera kukhululuka.
Monga taonera kale, Baibulo limafotokoza zifukwa zimene zingathetse banja , komabe palibe paliponse pomwe Mkhristu amalamulidwa kuti apatukane pazifukwa zina; Ili ndiye lingaliro lathunthu la aliyense amene akukumana ndi mavuto awo.
Ngati inu monga Mkhristu munachitiridwa zachinyengo ndipo mukukhulupirira kuti muli ndi mphamvu zokhululuka ndikupitiliza chibwenzicho, pakakhala kulapa kwenikweni ndi kowona kwa wokondedwa wanu (Mkhristu kapena ayi), ndibwino kukhululuka ndikuyamba kufunafuna banja kubwezeretsa. Ndipo zotengeka za onse mwachangu momwe zingathere.
Komabe, ngati mwachitidwapo zachinyengo ndipo simukuganiza kuti muli ndi mphamvu zothetsera kusakhulupirika pazifukwa zosiyanasiyana: kubwerezanso kwa mnzake wosakhulupirika, nkhanza zapakhomo kapena mwayesera kupitilira kwa miyezi ingapo kapena zaka, ndipo simungathe kuzipirira; osamva kuti mukuyenera kupitiriza chibwenzicho. Choyamba pali kukhazikika kwamaganizidwe anu .
Mulungu safuna mwa lingaliro lililonse kuti mugwere mu kamvuluvulu wokhumudwitsa komwe simungathe kutulukamo popanda kuthandizidwa ndi akatswiri, ndipo izi zitha kuchepa kuthekera kwanu konse ndi maluso anu. Komabe, mutapatukana, ngakhale zitakhala zomaliza, muyenera kupempha chikhululukiro pazomwe adakuchitirani; Izi zikutanthauza kusasunga malingaliro amnzeru, mkwiyo, kapena kubwezera.
Sitikulimbikitsa kuthetsa banja mwanjira iliyonse. Polimbana ndi kusakhulupirika, Mkhristu akuyenera kuyesetsa kuchita zonse zomwe angathe kuti asunge banja lake, kuonetsetsa kuti mnzake ndi ana ake akuyenda bwino, ndipo ngati kuli kotheka, apite kuchipatala. Komabe, pali zochitika zina za m'banja zomwe, monga tidanenera, ndizosakwanira, ndipo ndipamene padzakhala bwino kuwona kupatukana ngati zenera lothandizira.
Mkhristu akaganiza zokhululuka kusakhulupirika ndikupitiliza chibwenzicho , akupanga chisankho kuti anyamule, koma akuyenera kuwonekeratu kuti mtanda sikuti umangonyamulidwa kokha koma umapangidwa ndi cholinga chomwe chimakhudza kwambiri kupitirira malire.
Yesu atanyamula mtanda wake anali ndi cholinga chomveka bwino komanso chofunikira; sanazunzike chifukwa chofuna kuvutika, sichoncho? Mukawona kuti kuvutikaku sikukutsogolerani pachabe koma kungowonjezera mavuto, ndiye kuti ndikunyamula mtanda popanda cholinga. Kumbukirani kuti Mulungu amafuna kuti moyo wanu ukhale ndi cholinga, chomwe chiyenera kukhala ndi tanthauzo lamuyaya.
Tsopano ndikukupemphani kuti mukhale nthawi yambiri mukuganizira nkhaniyi:
- Ndinu wowunikiranso ndikuwona zomwe mungakhale nazo ndi banja lanu.
- Kumbukirani kuti Mulungu sangaimbe mlandu pazomwe zidakuchitikirani, mayesero a thupi ndi amphamvu kwambiri kwa anthu amitundu yonse, ndipo Mulungu wakutetezani ku china choyipitsitsa.
- Osatsutsa mnzanu, musagwiritse ntchito ziganizo kapena mawu onyoza; kumbukirani kuti zomwe zidamuchitikira, momwemonso, zitha kukuchitikirani. Osaponya mwala woyamba (Yohane 8: 7)
- Kumbukirani fanizo la Mtumiki Wosathokoza (Mt. 18: 23-35) ngakhale atakuyankhulani mlandu waukulu motani; muyenera kukhululuka chifukwa Mulungu adakukhululukirani cholakwa chachikulu kwambiri.
- Kumbukirani kufunafuna ndikuganiza za chifuniro cha Mulungu pamoyo wanu, momwe mungapitilize chibwenzicho chifukwa chakufunika kwakumbuyo kwake, kapena kungakhale kutha chifukwa kulibe mwayi mtsogolo.
- Tsopano lankhulani ndi mnzanuyo pamutuwu, fotokozani zaukwati wa m'Baibulo ndi kufunika kwake kwa inu.
Kodi chigololo ndi chiyani?
Kodi chigololo ndi chiyani malinga ndi baibulo .Chigololo ndi liwu lachi Greek Umoychea. Ndikutanthauza kuchita zogonana ndi munthu wina kunja kwa banja.
Mmau a Mulungu, tchimoli limatchedwa kusakhulupirika m'banja. Ili ndi tchimo la thupi, lomwe limaphwanya kapena kuswa mfundo za m'Baibulo kukhazikitsidwa ndi Mulungu .
Kodi chigololo, m'mbuyomu komanso pano, chakhala mliri mthupi la Yesu komanso mdziko lapansi. Tapeza kuti onse odziwika odziwika ndi mautumiki awonongedwa chifukwa cha izo. Ife, monga mpingo tiyenera kuyankhula ndikuthana ndi vutoli moyenera.
Mavesi ochokera ku Chigololo
Ekisodo 20:14
Usachite chigololo.
1 Atesalonika 4: 7
Pakuti Mulungu sanaitane ife kuti tikhale odetsedwa koma kuyeretsedwa.
Miyambo 6:32
Koma wochita chigololo akusowa kumvetsetsa; Amaipitsa moyo wake yemwe amachita izo.
1 Akorinto 6: 9
Kodi simudziwa kuti osalungama sadzalandira ufumu wa Mulungu? Musasochere; adama, kapena opembedza mafano, kapena achigololo, kapena okwatirana nawo, kapena akudziipsa ndi amuna,
Levitiko 20:10
Ngati mwamuna achita chigololo ndi mkazi wa mnansi wake, wopondereza mkaziyo adzaphedwa.
1 Akorinto 7: 2
koma chifukwa cha chiwerewere, aliyense ali ndi mkazi wakewake, ndipo aliyense ali ndi mwamuna wake.
Yeremiya 3: 8
Anawona kuti chifukwa Israeli wopanduka adachita chiwerewere, ndidamutaya ndikumupatsa kalata yokana; Koma Yuda wopanduka sanachite mantha ndi mlongo wake, koma nayenso adapita kukachita chigololo.
Ezekieli 16:32
koma monga mkazi wachigololo, wolandira alendo kunja kwa mwamuna wake.
Mitundu ya chigololo
1. Chigololo cha m'maso
Chokhumba cha maso ndi umodzi mwazomwe zimayambitsa machimo. Pachifukwa ichi, Yobu adachita pangano ndi maso ake kuti asawonere mkazi namwali mwadyera.
Baibulo lomasuliridwa motere limawerenga kuti: Ndapanga pangano (mgwirizano) m'maso mwanga, ndingayang'ane bwanji mtsikana monyanyira kapena mwadyera? Tiyeni tikumbukire kuti amuna amayesedwa, choyamba, kudzera m'maso awo.
Chifukwa chake, ayenera kukhala ndi chitsimikizo cha tchimo, kuti apange chisankho kuti apange pangano loti ayang'ane mkaziyo moyenera.
Ndidapangana ndi maso anga kuti ndisayang'ane mtsikana m'njira yomwe ingandipangitse kumufuna. Yobu 31.1
2. Chigololo cha mumtima
Malinga ndi Mau, si tchimo kuwona mkazi ndikumusilira ndi chiyero mumtima; koma, ndi tchimo kuyang'anitsitsa ndikusilira. Izi zikachitika, chigololo chachitika kale mumtima.
Mudamva kuti kudanenedwa kwa iwo akale, Usachite chigololo: Mateyu 5.27
3 . Chigololo chamalingaliro
Pali anthu omwe amakonda kusewera ndi malingaliro azakugonana; Ndipo ngati munthu ali ndi malingaliro oterewa m'maganizo mwake, zimakhala ngati wachita tchimolo lenilenilo. Mitundu inayi ya chigololo ndi chiwerewere imayamba ndi lingaliro, lomwe, ngati likusangalatsidwa, limaipitsa mtima, maso, ndi thupi.
4. Chigololo cha thupi
Mtundu uwu wauchimo ndikumaliza, machitidwe athupi la zomwe zidalowa m'maso, ndikusinkhasinkha. Kuyanjana kwapamtima ndi munthu kumabweretsa kulumikizana kwakuthupi, kwamaganizidwe, kwauzimu, komanso, kusintha kwa mizimu kumachitika.
Izi zimachitika chifukwa nthawi yomwe akhala limodzi kwambiri, amakhala thupi limodzi. M'mawu omasula, amatchedwa zomangira za moyo. Ichi ndichifukwa chake kuli kovuta kuti anthu omwe akuchita tchimo la chigololo ndi chigololo apatukane.
Amafuna kusiya tchimo, koma sangathe. Wina ayenera kuwathandiza chifukwa agwa mumsampha wa adani. Ili ndi tchimo lomwe limabwera kuchokera pansi pamtima chifukwa cha izi; ndizoipitsa kwambiri.
Ndi malingaliro otani a munthu amene amakhala chigololo ndi dama?
Palibe amene adzandiwone ndi mawu omwe amabwerezedwa m'malingaliro a munthu yemwe ndi wachigololo.
Munthu amene achita chigololo ndi chiwerewere amachititsidwa khungu kumvetsetsa kwake ndi mzimu wachinyengo ndi mabodza; Chifukwa chake, samvetsa kuwonongeka komwe amabweretsa kubanja lake, ana ake, komanso koposa zonse, ufumu wa Mulungu.
Moyo wa munthuyo umagawanika, ndipo munthuyo akutaya umunthu wake; chifukwa amalumikiza moyo wake ndi munthu wina; ndiye, zidutswa za moyo wa mnzake zimabwera naye, ndipo zidutswa za moyo wake zimapita ndi munthu winayo
Chifukwa chake, amakhala munthu wosakhazikika yemwe alibe umunthu wake; moyo wake wawonongeka. Wachigololo ndi amene amakhala wosakhazikika m'maganizo nthawi zonse; ndi wa mitima iwiri; sakhutira konse; akumva kukhala wosakwanira, wosakhutira ndi iyemwini. Zonsezi, chifukwa cha chigololo, chiwerewere, komanso chiwerewere.
Palibe amene adzandione ndi mawu omwe amabwerezedwa m'malingaliro a munthu yemwe ndi wachigololo. Tikumbukire kuti ngakhale padziko lapansi palibe amene akutiwona, pali m'modzi yemwe amawona zonse kuchokera kumwamba, ndiye Mulungu.
Diso la wachigololo limayang'anira madzulo; amaganiza kuti, ‘Palibe diso lidzandiona,’ ndipo amabisabe nkhope yake. Yobu 24.15
Zoyenera kuchita ndi anthu omwe akukhala mu chigololo ndi dama?
Chokani kwa iwo?
Koma ndinakulemberani kuti musayanjane ndi aliyense wotchedwa mbale ngati ali wachiwerewere, kapena wosilira, kapena wopembedza mafano, kapena wolalatira, kapena woledzera, kapena wolanda, ngakhale kusadya naye wotere. . , 1 Akorinto 5.10-13.
Zikutanthauza kuti mukana munthu amene akuchita chigololoyo, zomwe ndimeyi ikunena, sikuloleza tchimo, ndi kuyamba mwalitsutsa kwa Mulungu m'pemphero kuti muthandize m'bale amene wagwa uyu. Kudana ndi tchimo, osati wochimwa. Mulungu amakonda wochimwa koma amadana ndi tchimo.
Udindo wathu ndikupempherera m'baleyo ndikumupatsa mawu oti adzipatule ku tchimo la chigololo ndi dama.
Pamene tchimo limachitika mosalekeza
Tchimo likachitika mosalekeza, chitseko chimatseguka kuti chiwanda chibwere kudzamupondereza. Pa ntchito iliyonse ya thupi, pali chiwanda chomwe chimazunza munthu aliyense amene amachita chimodzi mwazomwe.
Pamene munthu wafika pachilakolako, amakhala atasiya kale kuopa Mulungu mu chikumbumtima chake. Ndi anthu omwe amakhala ogwiririra, ogona ana, ndi zina zosokoneza.
Amachita zonyansa kwambiri komanso zachiwawa kwambiri kuti akwaniritse chilakolako chawo chokakamiza. Chilichonse chowazungulira chimawonongeka, monga banja ndi banja. Ndi Yesu yekha amene angawamasule ku ukapolowo.
Kodi nchifukwa ninji pamakhala mavuto ndi machimo apamtima?
Pali zifukwa zazikulu zitatu, izi ndi izi:
- Matemberero amitundu yonse: Matemberero amibadwo ndi chimodzi mwazomwe zimayambitsa; lero, akubwerezabwereza popeza adayambitsidwanso ndi makolo awo, agogo awo, ndi abale.
- Kuponderezana kwapakale, monga zowawa, kugonana pachibale, nkhanza zochitidwa ndi anthu apabanja.
- Zithunzi zojambula pa TV-wailesi komanso magazini. M'dziko lamasiku ano, atolankhani ambiri amakhala ndi chosakanizira cha por-nographic chaching'ono kapena chokulirapo, chomwe chimakhudza malingaliro athu. Koma, ndi mbali yathu yomwe timabweretsa malingaliro onse ogwidwa ndikumvera kwa Khristu.
Zotsatira zachiwerewere ndi zachiwerewere ndi zotani?
Koma Ine ndinena kwa inu, kuti yense wakuyang'ana mkazi kumkhumba, pamenepo watha kuchita naye chigololo mumtima mwake, Mateyu 5.28
Omasuliridwa motere akuti: Koma ndikukuuzani kuti aliyense amene amayang'ana kwambiri mkazi kuti amusirire (ndi zilakolako zoipa, kukhala ndi malingaliro okondana naye) wachita naye kale chigololo mumtima mwake ...
Ndi chifukwa chake kuti por-nography, mwa mtundu uliwonse wa mawonekedwe, iyenera kupewedwa, chifukwa imatha kubweretsa zizolowezi zonyansa komanso zonyansa zonse, zomwe ndi chigololo, chiwerewere ndizochokera mumalingaliro amtima, pakupereka pakhomo lolowera.
Dama. Uwu ndi ubale wapamtima pakati pa anthu awiri omwe sanakwatirane; chigololo ndi kuchita chibwenzi mosaloledwa ndi munthu wapabanja.
Uhule wachigololo ndi chigololo; Uku ndiko kukondoweza kwa ziwalo zobisika ngati chinthu chosilira; anthu ena amachita zodetsa ngati njira ina yopanda ana kapena kudzipereka kwa Mulungu.
Ngati mchitidwe wa chigololo ndi uhule sunaimitsidwe, tidzagwera mu kuya kwa machimo apamtima, omwe atifikitsa magawo awa:
1. Miseche
Nyansi ndi banga lamakhalidwe a anthu omwe amapatsidwa zilakolako ndi zonyansa.
Tsoka kwa inu, alembi ndi Afarisi, onyenga! chifukwa muli ofanana ndi manda opaka njereza, omwe kunja kwake alidi okongola, koma mkatimo muli mafupa akufa ndi zonyansa zonse . Mateyu 23.27
2 . kusewera
Lasciviousness imachokera ku liwu lachi Greek aselgeia zomwe zikutanthauza kupyola muyeso, kusadziletsa, nkhanza, kusungunuka. Ndi chimodzi mwazoipa zomwe zimachokera mumtima.
Awa, atataya chidwi chawo chonse, adadzipereka kuti achite zonyansa zadyera mwadyera . Aefeso 4.19
Aselgeia ndichisiriro, zonyansa zonse zopanda manyazi, wosadziletsa chilakolako, kuwonongeka kopanda malire. Chitani tchimo masana ndi kudzikuza ndi kunyoza.
Monga mukuwonera, kuuma kwa awa machimo akupita patsogolo. Icho chimatchedwa tchimo la chiwerewere pamene munthu wafikiratu ku chisembwere choterocho kotero kuti iye sangasiye kuchita izi. Ikusowa kwodzitchinjiriza kwathunthu, kusowa ulemu, imakhala yakuda m'mbali zonse.
Lewdness sichimangokhala m'malo apamtima komanso pakamwa pakudya kwambiri, kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo, komanso mumachimo aliwonse wamba. Palibe amene amayamba kuchimwa modetsa nkhawa, koma ndimachitidwe omwe pang'onopang'ono amalephera kuwongolera malingaliro ake, thupi lake, pakamwa pake, ndi moyo wake.
Zotsatira za chigololo
Zotsatira zauzimu za chigololo .
- 1. Chigololo ndi chiwerewere zimabweretsa imfa yauzimu, yakuthupi, komanso yamaganizidwe.
- Ngati mwamuna achita chigololo ndi mkazi wa mnansi wake, wopondereza mkaziyo adzaphedwa. Levitiko 20.10
- 2. Chigololo chidzabweretsa zotsatira zosakhalitsa komanso zosatha.
- 3. Lidzatero kubweretsa zotsatira mu ndege ngati matenda, umphawi ndi mavuto; Komanso, zidzabweretsa zotsatira zauzimu monga kuvulala, kupweteka, kusweka ndi kukhumudwa m'banja.
- Zinayi. Amene achita chigololo ndi wopusa
- Komanso wochita chigololo alibe nzeru; Yemwe amachita izi amasokoneza moyo wake. Miyambo 6.32
- 5 . Munthu amene achita chigololo kapena chiwerewere chilichonse amachititsidwa khungu kumvetsetsa kwake ndi mzimu wachinyengo ndi mabodza; Chifukwa chake, samvetsa kuwonongeka komwe amabweretsa kubanja lake, ana ake, komanso koposa zonse, ufumu wa Mulungu.
- 6 . Munthu amene wachita chigololo amasokoneza moyo wake; Liwu loti chivundi, m'Chiheberi, limapereka lingaliro logawanika.
- 7. Chigololo chimabweretsa zilonda ndi manyazi.
- Zilonda ndi manyazi mudzazipeza. ndi kunyoza kwake sikudzatha konse. Miyambo 6.33
- 8. Kusudzulana ndi chimodzi mwazoipa zoyipa zomwe zimapangitsa mpata wotsegulira khomo la chigololo.
- 9. Iye amene achita chigololo ndi chiwerewere sadzalowa mu ufumu wa Mulungu.
- Kodi simudziwa kuti osalungama sadzalandira ufumu wa Mulungu? Musanyengedwe; achiwerewere, kapena opembedza mafano, kapena achigololo, kapena akudziipsa ndi amuna, kapena akudziipsa ndi amuna, kapena akuba, kapena osirira, kapena zidakwa, kapena olalatira, kapena olanda, sadzalowa mu ufumu wa Mulungu. Akorinto 6: 9-10
- Lemba limanena momveka bwino kuti munthu amene achita chigololo sangalandire ufumu wa Mulungu pokhapokha atalapa.
- 10. Achigololo ndi adama adzaweruzidwa ndi Mulungu.
- Olemekezeka muukwati wonse ndi pogona asadetsedwe, koma adama ndi achigololo adzaweruzidwa ndi Mulungu. (Ahebri 13:14)
- khumi ndi chimodzi. Iwo amene achita chigololo akhoza kutaya mabanja awo, chifukwa ndicho chifukwa chokhacho cha m'Baibulo chosudzulirana.
Zotsatira zalamulo za chigololo
Kodi chifukwa chachikulu komanso chololeza cha chisudzulo ndi chiani? Kodi chigololo ndi chiwerewere ndi ziti zomwe zachitika zomwe zimapereka mpata wosankha izi. M'malemba omwe tili nawo; Yesu akuyankha za chigololo m'Baibulo motere:
Iye anati kwa iwo: Yesu anayankha, Mose adakulolezani kuti musudzule akazi anu chifukwa mitima yanu inali youma. Koma sizinali choncho kuyambira pachiyambi. Ndikukuuzani kuti aliyense wosudzula mkazi wake, koma chifukwa cha chiwerewere, nakwatira mkazi wina achita chigololo. Mateyu 19: 8-9
Zotsatira za chisudzulo pazifukwa za chigololo ndi dama
Anthu oyamba kuvulala m'maganizo ndi abale athu. Pali ana ambiri okhala ndi zowawa m'mitima mwawo chifukwa amayi kapena abambo achoka ndi wina. Zotsatira za izi zimakhala zopweteka kwa ana.
Ana ndiwo amakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi chisudzulo: ambiri mwa iwo adayamba kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo, adakhala mgulu la achifwamba kapena achifwamba, ndipo ena adamwalira.
Ena mwa anawa amakula ali okwiya, okwiya, komanso odana ndi makolo awo. Pali ambiri omwe pamapeto pake amadzimva kuti akukanidwa, kusungulumwa, kapena kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo; Ndipo chomvetsa chisoni ndichakuti, akamakula, amachitanso chigololo m'mabanja mwawo popeza ili ndi temberero lomwe limalandiridwa kuchokera ku mibadwomibadwo.
Komanso, tikupeza kuti pali zilonda zambiri zomwe zimabzala mumtima mwa m'modzi wa okwatirana, monga kusakhululukirana, kuwawidwa mtima, ndi chidani, chifukwa choukira boma ndi kusakhulupirika.
Zimayambitsa manyazi pabanja, manyazi pa uthenga wabwino, manyazi, komanso kunyozetsa mbali zonse zamoyo. Kuyipa kwa chigololo sikungafafanizidwenso.
Ndikukhulupirira ndakuthandizani.
Zamkatimu
- Kodi Baibulo limati chiyani pa nkhani yokhululuka chigololo?
- Makhalidwe aukwati wachikhristu:
- Zotsatira zakusakhulupirika m'banja lachikhristu:
- Kukhululuka kusakhulupirika m'banja lachikhristu:
- Kodi chigololo ndi chiyani?
- Mavesi ochokera ku Chigololo
- Mitundu ya chigololo
- 1. Chigololo cha m'maso
- 2. Chigololo cha mumtima
- 3. Chigololo chamalingaliro
- 4. Chigololo cha thupi
- Ndi malingaliro otani a munthu amene amakhala chigololo ndi dama?
- Zoyenera kuchita ndi anthu omwe akukhala mu chigololo ndi dama?
- Pamene tchimo limachitika mosalekeza
- Kodi nchifukwa ninji pamakhala mavuto ndi machimo apamtima?
- Zotsatira zachiwerewere ndi zachiwerewere ndi zotani?
- 1. Miseche
- 2. kusewera
- Zotsatira za chigololo
- Zotsatira zalamulo za chigololo
- Zotsatira za chisudzulo pazifukwa za chigololo ndi dama