Khalidwe lachilengedwe la paka ili ndikuthokoza , akatswiri amati, chifukwa mphaka wanu amalankhula nanu ndipo amakulemberani chizindikiro chake achibale . Amphaka amatanthauzira maiko awo ndi fungo , akutero Marilyn Krieger, mlangizi wodziwika bwino wamakhalidwe ku California, wotchedwanso The Cat Coach. Ndi njira yodziwira mabanja awo, anzawo komanso adani awo. Mphaka akakugwera, imagulitsa fungo lako. Zimatsimikizira kuti ndinu m'gulu (lawo). Ndizokoma kwambiri.
Chifukwa chiyani amphaka akukutsutsani
Amphaka ali ndi zotulutsa zonunkhira zomwe zimatulutsa ma pheromones m'malo osiyanasiyana amthupi lawo, kuphatikiza masaya awo, mchira, mphumi, mapazi, ndi malo amkati. Akapaka kanthu kapena winawake, amasungako kununkhira uku ndikupitilira, atero a Amy Shojai, mlangizi wovomerezeka wazikhalidwe ku Texas.
Kulumikizana kwamafuta sikumangotanthauza kena kokha paka ikudutsa, koma uthenga wonunkha umamamirirana ndi kulumikizana kwanthawi yayitali, akutero Shojai.
Pazinthu zina zolumikizirana, mphaka ndi mnzakeyo ayenera kupezeka, mwachitsanzo, kuti awone zokhumba za mchira, kapena kuti amve masharubu ndi azitsitsi, atero a Shojai, wolemba mabuku opitilira 30 osamalira ziweto, kuphatikiza CHIKHALIDWE: Kuthetsa Mavuto Amikhalidwe mnyumba mwanu ndi amphaka angapo. Kuyankhulana kwamawu kumangotulutsa mpweya umodzi kamodzi, akutero. Koma fungo limapitilizabe kulankhulana ngakhale paka itachoka mnyumbayi.
Kupaka mphaka kungathenso kukhala nkhani yofuna madera, koma zimapitilira apo, atero a Shojai. Kulemba malo kumayang'ana kwambiri zinthu ndi malo ndipo nthawi zambiri kumakhudzana ndikupukuta ndi tsaya.
Kodi Zimatanthauzanji Ngati Amphaka Akukutsani? Kulemba mamembala amtundu wawo.
Amphaka amtchire amatsutsana wina ndi mnzake kuti adziwe mamembala amtundu wawo. Zithunzi © maximkabb | Malingaliro.
M'madera amphaka owopsa, mphalayi imadziwika ngati mamembala amtundu wawo pakupukutana ndikuphimba mitu pansi pawo. Iyi ndi njira yolumikizirana ndi kuvomereza, atero a Krieger. Amphaka akatumiza khalidweli kwa anthu, amasakaniza zonunkhira zawo ndi zathu komanso amati amavomereza. Ngati mphaka samakukondani, mwina sangakupukuteni, akutero Krieger.
Amphaka akakukutsani, amati, Ndinu gulu, inenso ndili mbali yanu, tonse tili mgulu lomwelo, akutero.
Kodi amphaka amayang'ana malo osiyanasiyana kuti azipaka dala?
Amphaka samayang'ana kwenikweni pazigawo zina za thupi lamunthu ndi mauthenga osiyanasiyana; nthawi zambiri amangopita kumalo omwe amapezeka, atero a Krieger.
Komabe, ngati Amphaka amakonda kuyenda pafupi ndi ife ndikupaka matupi awo onse kumiyendo yathu. Nthawi zambiri amaliza izi ndikumanga michira yawo mozungulira miyendo yathu. Uwu ndi moni wachikondi pakati pa amphaka, ndikuwonjezera, anthu omwe amawakonda ndi kuwakhulupirira, atero a Shojai. Malingana ngati amphaka anu sakupukuta manja anu, mwina mungasangalale nawo akakupezani. Pusani amphaka anu ngati akukutsutsani kuti mulimbikitse ndikubwezera, Krieger amalimbikitsa. Amphaka akabwera kwa inu ndipo sanakuwone tsiku lonse ndipo amakupaka pamiyendo - ngati uwadzipweteka zokha, umalimbikitsanso khalidweli ndikubwezeretsanso fungo lako mphaka, akutero. Amasangalala ndi chikondi ndipo amachipeza kuti amachikonda. Pafupifupi amphaka onse amapereka makapu. Mwinamwake mwawona kuti amapereka makapu m'njira zosiyanasiyana? Ndizowona, amphaka amatha kutanthauza zinthu zosiyanasiyana kwa iwo. Zonunkhira ndizofunikira kwambiri pa mphaka ndipo ndizofunikira kwambiri pakulankhulana. Ichi ndichifukwa chake mphaka imakhala ndi zotulutsa zonunkhira m'malo angapo amthupi. Amakhala mozungulira pakamwa, pakati pamapazi, kumunsi kwa mchira komanso mozungulira anus. Pogwiritsa ntchito chinthu china, mphaka amachotsa kununkhira kwake. Kodi mudayamba mwawonapo mafuta akudawa akusesa pamakomo kapena malo ena omwe amphaka amadutsa? Mphaka akabwera kwa inu kapena amakhala pabedi nanu, nthawi zambiri amapatsa 'zopindika'. Amakankhira pamphumi pake tsaya lanu kapena chibwano. Izi zimatha kusiyanasiyana pakukhudza pang'ono mpaka cholemetsa chamutu, koma nthawi zonse chimayenera kukhala ochezeka. Amasungira amphaka machitidwewa kwa amphaka ndi anthu omwe ali ndiubwenzi wabwino ndipo amamusiya kafungo kake ngati njira yocheza nawo. Mukafika kunyumba, mphaka wanu adzakupatsani moni. Nthawi zina amayimirira ndi miyendo yake yakumbuyo ndikupereka makapu ndi chipumi, koma amathanso kukwapula miyendo yanu, kukoka mchira pamodzi ndi ana anu ndikupukuta. Izi sizitanthauza kuti akufuna kukupangitsani kukhala 'katundu', iyi ndi njira ina yoperekera moni ndipo imathandizanso kukonzanso fungo la gululi. Zinthu m'nyumba zimalandiranso makapu, ngakhale zili zotheka kupaka milomo yawo kwinakwake. Mwanjira imeneyi, mphaka amatulutsa kafungo kake, ndikupangitsa kuti azimva kuti ndi otetezeka. Zonunkhira izi zimayenera kutsitsimutsidwa pafupipafupi, apo ayi fungo limasanduka nthunzi. Osanena za ogwira ntchito omwe amapita kumalo onsewa ndi nsalu ndikuchotsa kununkhira kwamtengo wapatali! Zinthu zotsika nthawi zambiri zimadziwika ndi kuzipaka ndi chibwano. ZamkatimuKodi mukufuna kuti mphaka wanu akupikitseni? Limbikitsani khalidweli!
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