Kodi Mulungu Adzabwezeretsa Ukwati Wanga Pambuyo pa Chigololo?

Kodi Mulungu abwezeretsa ukwati wanga nditachita chigololo? . Mulungu adabwezeretsa ukwati wanga nditapatukana .

Zoyenera kuchita pakakhala kusakhulupirika mu ukwati ? Pali njira ziwiri: kutha kapena kuyesa kupanga fayilo ya ntchito yachibale .

Ngati mwasankha kale chachiwiri, apa tikubweretserani maupangiri omwe angakuthandizeni momwe mungachitire konza ukwati pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika, zomwe mungachite pakachitika kusakhulupirika mbanja ndi momwe mungabwezeretsere mkazi wanu (kapena) mutapatukana:

1. Malizitsani ulendo wanu

Chinthu choyamba muyenera kuchita ndikumaliza wokondedwa wanu. Kuwonongeka kokwanira kwachitika. Chifukwa chake ngati muli ndi chiyembekezo chodzateteza banja lanu, dzipereka kuti musayanjanenso. Izi zidzapangitsa kuti mnzanuyo azimva kuti ndi wotetezeka.

Ngati mutagwira ntchito ndi wokondedwa wanu wakale, sungani chibwenzicho mosamalitsa ndikulankhulana ndi mnzanuChilichonsezomwe zimachitika masana: kuchokera pama foni, misonkhano komanso ngakhale kuyesera kuwauza chilichonse chomwe wakale adalankhula nanu. Izi zithandiza kuyambitsanso kukhulupirirana muukwati wosweka chifukwa cha kusakhulupirika.

2. Funsani chikhululukiro kwa Mulungu ndi mwa mnzanu

Kodi Mulungu amalemekeza banja pambuyo pa chigololo?M'malingaliro achikhristu osakhulupirika, pali mavesi ena amomwe mungakhululukire osakhulupirika m'banja malinga ndi baibulo:

• M'malo mwake, khalani okoma mtima ndi achifundo kwa wina ndi mnzake, ndi kukhululukirana wina ndi mnzake, monga Mulungu anakhululukirani inu mwa Khristu. Aefeso 4:35
• Ngati anthu anga, omwe amadziwika ndi dzina langa, adzichepetse ndikupemphera, ndikusaka ndikusiya zoyipa zawo, ndidzamumvera kuchokera kumwamba, ndiwakhululukira tchimo lawo ndikubwezeretsanso dziko lawo. Mbiri ziwiri 7:14
• Wobisa tchimo lake sadzapambana; amene angavomereze ndi kusiya, apeza chikhululuko. Miyambo 28:13

Malangizo kwa osakhulupirika

Lapani kuchokera mu mtima mwanu. Choyamba, pemphani chikhululukiro cha Mulungu chifukwa chophwanya malonjezo anu kenako cha mnzanu wampereka.

Pempherani, ngakhale mukuganiza, Kodi pemphero lopulumutsa banja langa lingandithandize bwanji? Izi zimapangitsa malingaliro anu ndi malingaliro anu, kukupangitsani kuwonetsa bwino.

Lankhulani ndi Mulungu kuti, Ili ndi pemphero lobwezeretsa banja langa. Pepani. Chonde ndithandizeni ndikundiuzeni momwe ndingabwezeretsere banja langa pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika.

Upangiri kwa onyengedwa

Pempherani kwa Mulungu kuti akutsogolereni munjira yakukhululukirana ndikuchilitsidwa mbanja.

Mutha kudabwa momwe mungakhululukire osakhulupirika m'banja, koma yesetsani kusiya zopwetekazo ndikuganiza za nthawi zabwino zomwe mudakhala ndi mnzanu kuti muchiritse bala. Palibe chosatheka kwa Mulungu, ngati tifunsa kuchokera pansi pamtima.

Kusakhulupirika sikuyenera kukhala mapeto, choncho ngati mukuyang'ana njira yothanirana ndi banja mutachita chigololo, tikukupatsani malangizo otsatirawa omwe akuphunzitseni nonse kuchita bwino mtsogolo:

3. Lankhulani moona mtima ndi wokondedwa wanu

Kukhulupirirana kwasweka, ndipo ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zotsatira za kusakhulupirika m'banja. Njira yochira ikuchedwa ndipo imatheka pokhapokha kuwonekera kwathunthu kuchokera mbali zonse.

Malangizo kwa osakhulupirika

Ngati mungadzifunse, Kodi ndingayambitsenso bwanji chikhulupiriro cha mnzanga nditanamiza? Yambani ndi kunena zoona. Sikuti mumafunikira kufotokoza zonse zachikondi cha mnzanu, koma muyenera kukhala okonzeka kuyankha funso lililonse lomwe angafunse, ngakhale loonekeratu komanso lodabwitsa.

Konzekerani mtundu wamasamba osakhulupirika m'banja, monga: Ali ndi chiyani chomwe ine ndilibe? Chifukwa chiyani mwandichitira izi? Kodi mwatsiriza ulendo wonsewo?

Upangiri kwa onyengedwa

Fotokozerani mafunso onse omwe amabwera m'mutu mwanu ndipo kumbukirani kuti ngakhale mukumva kuwawa, wokondedwa wanu akumvanso zopweteka, ngakhale mwanjira ina, popeza sakufuna kukutayani ngakhale walakwitsa.

Yesetsani kusinthasintha malingaliro anu ndikufunika kodziwa zambiri, popeza momwe mumamvekera zambiri za chikondi chomwe mnzanuyo anali nacho, zithunzizi zimadzilankhulanso m'mutu mwanu komanso zimatenga nthawi yayitali kuchira. Momwe mungachiritse kusakhulupirika, tikukulangizani kuti muchiritse nokha.

4. Pangani 100% kudzipereka kuti mupulumutse banja lanu

Yankho pazomwe mungachite kuti mupulumutse banja langa? ndikudzipereka kwathunthu popeza ngakhale m'mabanja omwe sanachite chigololo, mwamuna ndi mkazi ayenera kukhala odzipereka kwathunthu kwa wina ndi mnzake. Chikondi chenicheni chimangokhala bwino ndikudzipereka kwathunthu.

Malangizo kwa osakhulupirika

Inde, ukwati ukhoza kupulumutsidwa pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika. Koma yambani ndikudzipereka nokha, kukhala ndi cholinga chopulumutsa banja lanu, kukonzanso malonjezo anu, ndikuyambiranso kukhulupirirana ndi mnzanu.

Muyenera kumuwonetsa momwe mumadziperekera, kuchita chilichonse chomwe chingafunike. Izi zikuphatikizapo kukhala oleza mtima, odzichepetsa, kuvomereza kuti mwalakwitsa, kuyandikira mwachikondi, ndikumvetsetsa mayendedwe awo komanso momwe akumvera.

Malangizo kwa omwe amabera

Muli ndi ufulu wokwiya koma yesetsani momwe mungathere kuti musagwiritse ntchito mkwiyo wanu kulanga mnzanu ndi mawu ndi zochita zankhanza.

Mutha kukhala osangalala pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika. Muyenera kukumbukira: Ndikufuna kubwezeretsa ukwati wanga chifukwa ndimakonda wokondedwa wanga. Ndipo onani zifukwa zomwe muyenera kukhululukira osakhulupirika m'banja ndikukhala kumbali yanu.

5. Khalani oleza mtima ndi okondedwa wanu: mumuthandizeni kuti achiritse

Psychology yaukwati imatiuza kuti kusakhulupirika kumakhudza onse awiri. Chifukwa chake onse kuonera komanso kubera amayenera kuthandizana kuti athe kuchira ndikuyambiranso banja lomwe lili pamavuto.

Upangiri kwa onyengedwa

Choyamba ndikutuluka m'mutu mwanu: Ndataya wokondedwa wanga ku kusakhulupirika. Fufuzani mabuku ofotokoza za kusakhulupirika m'banja ndi ziwonetsero za maanja omwe ali pamavuto osakhulupirika, kuti mumvetsetse pang'ono momwe mungathanirane ndi chibwenzi pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika komanso zonse zomwe zidachitika.

Timalimbikitsanso kuti mupite kwa asing'anga, gulu lampingo, kapena mukalankhule ndi abwenzi apamtima kuti muthe kupsa mtima ndikukulangizani zamomwe mungathetsere banja mukatha kusakhulupirika.

Malangizo kwa osakhulupirika

Popeza njirayi ndi yosiyana kwa abambo ndi amai, tifotokoza motere:

• Kusakhulupirika muukwati ndi mwamunayo. Amayi amatengeka kwambiri, ndipo titha kuchita zinthu ziwiri: kutseka tokha m'malingaliro mwathu kapena kufotokoza chilichonse chomwe timamva. Ngati mkazi wanu akuchita ngati woyamba, mupatseni malo ake poyamba, koma yesani kuyankhula naye.
• Kusakhulupirika kwa akazi okwatirana. Amuna nthawi zambiri amachoka akakhumudwa; ndi chibadwa chanu chodzisungira. Yesetsani momwe mungathere kuti mumupeze ndikumuchezera nthawi iliyonse yomwe angafune. Osamupewa kapena kumunyoza. Khalani achikondi ndi oleza mtima.

6. Yambitsaninso chidaliro

Kodi ndingatani kuti ndibwezeretse banja langa pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika? Kodi mumuthandize bwanji mnzanga atachita chigololo? Kodi kusakhulupirika m'banja kungathetsedwe? Kodi ndi mafunso omwe timadzifunsa tikakhala kuti tili motere.

Chowonadi ndichakuti chibwenzi chimatha kugwira ntchito pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika, koma zimatenga ntchito zambiri kuti mupezenso chidaliro cha mnzawoyo yemwe waberedwa.

Upangiri kwa onyengedwa

Tikudziwa kuti zakupweteketsani chifukwa kubera m banja sikophweka, koma pang'ono ndi pang'ono muyenera kuphunzira kukhulupiranso mnzanu.

Poyambirira, ndizomveka kuti mukufuna kudziwa nthawi zonse komwe muli ndi omwe mumakhala, onani foni yanu ndi malo ochezera a pa Intaneti. Koma pang'ono ndi pang'ono, uyenera kusiya kuzichita, chifukwa cha iwe, za mnzako komanso za ubale wonse. Ngati ndi kotheka, gwirani ntchito ndi othandizira.

Malangizo kwa osakhulupirika

Sizingakhale zokwanira kuti munene, Ndikhulupirireni. Onetsani mnzanuyo kuti mukufunitsitsadi ukwati wanu ubwerere. Ndi njira yocheperako yomwe imafunikira kuleza mtima kwanu ndikuphunzira kugonja.

Ngati lingaliro lanu la tsiku ndi tsiku ndilo, ndikufuna kupulumutsa banja langa pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika, kuchotsa mabodza ndi zinsinsi m'moyo wanu. Khalani oona mtima, mumufunse mukakhala ndi mafunso, ndipo khalani achikondi.

7. Sonyezani chifundo

Malangizo ambiri amomwe mungathandizire banja lomwe lili pamavuto ndi chifundo. Kubwezeretsa maukwati opatukana kumayamba ndikumvetsetsa zomwe winayo akumva, kuti awapatse chithandizo chomwe angafunire komanso kuti limodzi athetse izi.

Upangiri kwa onyengedwa

Palibe cholembera zamatsenga momwe mungathanirane ndi kusakhulupirika m'banja, koma ngati mnzanu akuchita zonse zotheka kuti athetse ukwatiwo pamavuto, musamamuchitire nkhanza.

Osamuimba mlandu. Osalankhula mawu owawa, ndipo musatchule mkwiyo wanu wonse kwa mnzanu. Izi sizingathetse chilichonse.

Malangizo kwa osakhulupirika

Ngati mumadzifunsa pafupipafupi: momwe mungakhalire ndi chidaliro mukakhala osakhulupirika? Chifukwa kumvetsetsa ndi mnzanu ndi njira imodzi. Yesetsani kumvetsetsa momwe mumamvera ndikuganizira momwe mungakonde kukuchitirani zoterezi mukadakhala mnzanu.

Mutha kudabwa, Kodi pali maupangiri oti mupezenso wokondedwa wanga? Muyenera kudziwa kuti njira yabwino kwambiri ndikumvera ena chisoni, kuwakonda komanso kuleza nawo mtima.

8. Musayembekezere kuyanjananso mwachangu kapena kosavuta

Ngati mukufuna kudziwa maupangiri amomwe mungabwezeretsere chibwenzi pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika mwachangu kapena mosavuta, tiyenera kukuwuzani kuti palibe njira zake. Chipilala chofunikira, chomwe ndi chidaliro, chathyoledwa, ndipo kuchikhazikitsanso sichinthu chophweka.

Ngati inu ndi amene munachita cholakwacho, tikukuchenjezani kuti muyenera kuyembekezera mkwiyo, mkwiyo, ndi misozi kuchokera kwa mnzanu. Langizo lina lomwe tingakupatseni momwe mungapulumutsire banja lanu ndi: khalani oleza mtima. Adzakhala ndi masiku abwino komanso oyipa, koma nthawi zonse ayenera kukumbukira lingaliro limodzi: Ndikufuna kupulumutsa banja langa.

Malangizo kwa osakhulupirika

Mwinamwake mukudabwa, Kodi ndingapangitse bwanji mnzanga kukondanso? Chitani izi mwatsatanetsatane tsiku lililonse, moleza mtima, mwachikondi, komanso kuwona mtima. Pang'ono ndi pang'ono, muzikwaniritsa. Ingokhulupirirani kuti zinthu ziyenda.

9. Funsani thandizo

Lumikizanani ndi abale, abwenzi, ndipo ngakhale kupeza gulu lochirikiza, monga m'mipingo yachikhristu. Izi ziwathandiza kuti asamakhumudwe kwambiri ali pakati pa kusakhulupirika m'banja lachikhristu.

Pitani ku chithandizo cha maanja ndikufunsani chithandizo chonse chomwe mungafune kuti akuphunzitseni momwe angamangenso banja mukatha kusakhulupirika.

Upangiri kwa onyengedwa

Mukadzifunsa, Ndingakhale bwanji wosangalala m'banja langa? Pitani ku gulu lokuthandizani kuti likuthandizeni kutulutsa zokhumudwitsa zonsezi kuti mutha kuchira ndikukhalanso osangalala.

Ngakhale panali kusakhulupirika musanalowe m'banja ndipo tsopano ndi zomwe mukudziwa, kambiranani zonse zomwe mumamva. Osasunga chilichonse. Ndiyo njira yokhayo yothetsera ululu.

10. Dziwani kuti chilonda sichitha konse

Chimodzi mwazisonyezo zakusakhulupirika m'banja zomwe izi ziyenera kuwasiya onsewa ndikuti, ngakhale atakwanitsa kuthana nazo, padzakhala chilonda chachikulu chomwe chingapweteke nthawi ndi nthawi komanso m'malo opanikiza.

Ngakhale atazindikira chifukwa chake kusakhulupirika kuli mbanja ndikuwongolera, simungayiwale kusakhulupirika mbanja. Ndi chilonda chomwe chimatsalira mumtima moyo wonse.

Kodi amati kusakhulupirika m'banja ndi kotani?

Ndikofunika kufotokoza zomwe zili zosayenera kusakhulupirika, ngakhale zimatengera ubale uliwonse. Mwambiri, titha kukuwuzani ena mwa malingaliro omwe amapezeka kwambiri:

• Ngati mnzanu akukonzekera kuzembera wina, makamaka m'malo omwe si pagulu.
• Muli ndi mbiri yolimba pamasamba ochezera kapena pachibwenzi.
• Gwiritsani ntchito chiwerewere ndi anthu ena.
• Ikakuwuzani kuti imamva bwino kwa munthu wina.
• Amawakumbatira ndikupsompsona anthu ena, ndipo zikuwonetsa kuti zolinga zawo sizongokonda ayi.

Kodi mungadziwe bwanji ngati pali kusakhulupirika m'banja?

Ngati mukuganiza kuti mnzanu ali ndi ambuye, musanayang'ane momwe mungapambanitsire mwamuna wanga (a) ngati ali ndi wokondedwa?), Tikukulimbikitsani kuti muwonetsetse kuti mulidi mumkhalidwewu, ndi malingaliro omwe tidatchulapo. inu. kupitiriza:

• Yesetsani kukhala nokha.
• Nsanje yake imayamba kulamulidwa, monga momwe zimaonekera mumkhalidwe uliwonse womwe ena ali nawo kwa inu.
• Nthawi zambiri amakhala wamanjenje popanda chifukwa.
• Zimakhala zodabwitsa.

Kodi kuthana ndi kusakhulupirika m'banja?

Ngakhale mwazindikira kapena simukuwona zisonyezo zakusakhulupirika m'banja mukazindikira zavutoli, mumakhala okhumudwa komanso osakhulupirira zomwe sizili zovuta kuthana nazo, koma tikupangira izi:

1. Ngati inu ndi amene mwachita zosakhulupirika, uzani mnzanu - modekha komanso osakweza mawu - zomwe zidachitika ndikumvera zonse zomwe ndikunena. Kumbukirani kuti njira imodzi yopulumutsira banja lomwe lili pamavuto, ndikunenanso zoona.
2. Ngati mukumunamizira, yesani kupumira musanayankhe chilichonse.
3. Musanapange chisankho, sinkhasinkhani bwino komanso kwa nthawi yayitali zomwe zili zabwino kwa inu. Ndibwino kukhululuka osakhulupirika m'banja, pokhapokha ngati mukuganiza kuti pambuyo pake mudzakhulupiriranso wokondedwa wanu.
4. Getaway kwakanthawi atalankhula. Nthawi zambiri, banja limagwira ntchito atapatukana, chifukwa adatha kuchiritsa mabalawo payekha ndipo amatha kuyang'ana kuchiritsa chibwenzicho.

Kodi chimachitika nchiyani munthu akachita chigololo m'banja?

Chinthu choyamba ndikuti mafunso angapo amabwera m'mutu: Kodi ndingatani kuti ndipulumutse banja langa ?, Ndingatani kuti ndibwererenso mkazi kapena mwamuna wanga? Kodi ndingatani kuti ndipulumutse banja langa nditakhala wosakhulupirika? , kuthana ndi kusakhulupirika m'banja?

Chowonadi ndichakuti palibe njira yamatsenga kapena makina munthawi yake kuti amangenso zomwe zikutsatira: mavoti ndi chidaliro zaphwanyidwa, chifukwa chake pakhoza kukhala kulira, kukuwa, chete, komanso mikangano yambiri pakati pa awiriwa.

Ndikothekanso kuti pali mtunda, koma osadandaula, chifukwa nthawi zambiri ndichinthu chofunikira kuti athe kuchiritsa ndikupitiliza ubalewo.

Mwamalemba: Kodi mungabwezeretse bwanji banja pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika?

Choyamba ndikuti onse ayenera kupemphera kuchokera pansi pamtima komanso kukumbukira nthawi zonse kuti: Mulungu atha kubwezeretsa banja langa.

Njira ina yobwezeretsa ukwati wachikhristu ndi kudzera muzochitika za m'Baibulo. Ena mwa iwo ndi awa:

• Mateyu 6:33. Koma muthange mwafuna ufumu wake ndi chilungamo chake, ndipo zonse izi zidzawonjezedwa kwa inu.
• Yakobo 4: 4. O, miyoyo yachigololo! Kodi simudziwa kuti ubwenzi wa dziko lapansi uli udani ndi Mulungu? Chifukwa chake, iye amene akufuna kukhala bwenzi la dziko lapansi akhala mdani wa Mulungu.
• Maliko 11:25. Ndipo pamene mupemphera, ngati muli ndi kanthu kotsutsana ndi wina, mukhululukireni kuti Atate wanu wakumwamba akhululukireni machimo anu.

Pemphero lopulumutsa ukwati wanga ndikukhululuka kusakhulupirika

Ngati mungadzifunse nokha, Ndingadziwe bwanji ngati Mulungu akufuna kuti abwezeretse banja langa ?, Mudzakhala ndi yankho kudzera mu pemphero.

Titha kukulemberani pemphero la mwamuna wosakhulupirika, pemphero lina kwa mwamuna wachigololo, komanso pemphero la mwamuna wachigololo, koma tikukhulupirira kuti palibe pemphero logwira mtima kuposa lomwe lachitika kuchokera pansi pamtima.

Khalani m'malo abata ndikuyankhula ndi Mulungu ngati kuti mudali naye kale. Muuzeni zowawa zanu ndi zisoni zanu. Dziyikeni m'manja mwake ndipo khulupirirani kuti akudziwa momwe angakuthandizireni.

Kodi banja limayenda pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika kangapo?

Inemwini, sindikuganiza kuti banja lingathe kugwira ntchito pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika kangapo popeza ngati ndi chimodzi, nthawi zonse pamakhala bala laling'ono, ndi angapo, chilondacho chimakhala chachikulu kwambiri kuti sichichira.

Kusakhulupirika m'banja kumatha kukhululukidwa, koma angapo sangatero. Ngakhale atakhala kuti ndi achibale okhaokha osakhulupirika, kudalirana kumangogumuka mpaka kufika poti sikunakhaleko.

Kodi mungayambirenso bwanji pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika?

Chinthu choyamba ndichakuti onse ayenera kudzipereka kuti agwire ntchito pazokwanirana. Banja lokhumudwitsalo liyenera kusokoneza ubale wawo ndi wokondedwa wawo, ndipo omwe aberedwa ayenera kugwira ntchito yokhululuka ndikuphunzira kudaliranso.

Mabuku onena za kusakhulupirika m'banja angakuthandizeni kuchita zomwe zingakuphunzitseni momwe mungabwezeretsere banja pamavuto.

Kodi mungapulumuke bwanji kusakhulupirika m'banja?

Nawa maupangiri amomwe mungabwezeretsenso chibwenzi mutasakhulupirika:

• Kumanganso ubalewo mowona mtima komanso moona mtima.
• Landirani zomwe zinachitika, ndipo yesetsani kuiwala zomwe zinachitika. Kukumbukira mphindi iliyonse sizabwino kwa nonsenu.
• Fufuzani chifukwa chake pali kusakhulupirika m'banja. Mukazindikira, gwiritsani ntchito zomwe mwayambitsa, kuti zisadzachitikenso.
• Konzaninso ubale ndikupita patsogolo.

Kodi pangakhalenso kubwezeretsa ukwati pambuyo pa chigololo?

Zimatengera. Ngati onse adzipereka kukamanganso banja ndikuzindikira kuti sichingakhale ntchito yovuta kapena yachangu, chibwenzicho chitha.

Kukachitika kuti m'modzi mwa awiriwa sadzipereka kuchokera pansi pamtima kapena kuchita zoyesayesa zofunikira, kapena kuti tikakupatsirani malangizo okwana chikwi momwe mungapulumutsire banja pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika, mudzatha kuyanjananso. Banja ndi la anthu awiri ndipo likufunika kuti onse akhale odzipereka kwa wina ndi mnzake.

Ndingatani ndi mwamuna wanga pambuyo pa chigololo?

Ngati mukufuna upangiri wamomwe mungachitire kusakhulupirika m'banja, popeza simukudziwa bwino choti muchite, pano tikubweretserani zingapo:

1. Pumirani kwambiri ndikudekha kuti musapange zisankho zoyipa.
2. Kambiranani naye ndikumufunsa zonse zomwe mukufuna kudziwa. Chitani izi modekha, osakalipa kapena kutchula mayina.
3. Tengani nthawi kwa iye kuti mukulitse chilichonse ndikuganiza ngati mungakhululukire osakhulupirika m'banja.

Momwe mungapambanitsire mamuna wanga atandinamiza?

Ngati tsopano funso lanu ndi ili: Ndingabwezeretse bwanji banja langa ngati amuna anga samandikonda ?, Tiyenera kukuwuzani kuti simungapulumutse banja pomwe palibe chikondi.

Ngati mukuganiza kuti amakukondanibe, maupangiri amomwe mungapambanitsire mwamuna wanga ndi awa:

• Konzekani. Mwina chizolowezi chidadya chikondi komanso kufunitsitsa kuwoneka wokongola kwa iye. Chifukwa chake yambani kukuchitirani, kuti kudzidalira kwanu kukwere ndipo amakopeka nanu.
• Osamunena. Muli ndi ufulu wokwiya ndikumuuza zinthu, koma yesetsani kuchita izi modekha kuti akumvetsetse zomwe mukunena.
• Mukadzifunsa, Ndingatani kuti ndibwezere mwamuna wanga? Upangiri wina wabwino ndikufunafuna Mulungu. Sikuti mumakhala otanganidwa, koma imayesetsa kukhazikitsa chiyembekezo chanu pantchito yathanzi momwe mungathere.

Kodi mungabwezeretse bwanji chibwenzi pambuyo pokhala osakhulupirika?

Kupambana pazochitika zenizeni zakusakhulupirika m'banja ndikuti onsewa amayesetsa kuyambiranso maziko aubwenzi omwe ndi wokhulupirika. Pachifukwa ichi, akuyenera kukhala odzipereka kwathunthu kuti akwaniritse izi.

Chimodzi mwazifukwa zomwe kusakhulupirika kumachitika m'banja ndichakuti m'modzi wa awiriwa sanadzipereke pachibwenzi, ndiye zomwe muyenera kuyesetsa kwambiri.

Kodi mungabwezeretse banja pambuyo pazowonongeka zambiri?

Pogwirizana, kudzipereka, kugwira ntchito molimbika, banja limatha kutha pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika. Malangizo ena omwe tingakupatseni momwe mungasinthire banja mutakhala osakhulupirika kapena kupatukana ndi awa:

• Pitani kuchipatala payekha komanso maanja. Nthawi zambiri, zomwe zimayambitsa kusakhulupirika m'banja zimakhala mkati mwa wokhumudwitsayo, ndipo ndikofunikira kuti muthetse mavutowo, kuti musabwerere poyesedwa.
• Funso loti mukhululukire kapena kusakhulupirika mu banja siliyenera kufunsidwa ngati zomwe wina akufuna ndizosangalalanso ndi mnzake.

Kodi mungabwezeretse bwanji banja langa mukalekana?

Malangizo kwa maanja omwe apatukana omwe angakuphunzitseni momwe mungabwezeretsere banja lanu mukalekana ndi awa:

• Mvetsetsani kuti kupatukana sikofanana ndi kusudzulana. Mabanja ambiri amathetsa mabala awo pawokha, ndipo akakhala okonzeka, amayambiranso, ndipo ubalewo umayenda bwino.
• Ndi khama, kuleza mtima, ndi kudzipereka, mutha kusunga chibwenzi pambuyo pokhala osakhulupirika.
• Mpatseni bwenzi lanu malo ndipo mulemekeze chete kwawo. Mnzanuyo amakufunafunani akafuna kulankhula.
• Mukamayankhula naye, chitani mwachikondi komanso moleza mtima. Osakankhira kapena kuweruza.

Kodi mungakhale bwanji osangalala muukwati pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika?

Ngati mukuyang'ana momwe mungathanirane ndi kusakhulupirika m'banja ndikukhalanso achimwemwe, tikukupatsani upangiri wabwino kwambiri womwe mungapeze: nthawi imachiritsa chilichonse.

Ndizowona kuti muyenera kugwira ntchito pa inu nokha ndi paubwenzi, koma palibe njira yabwinoko yowawa kuposa kulola kuti nthawi idutse, ndipo bala limapola mothandizidwa ndi zochita zathu komanso za mnzathu.

Kodi ndingabwezeretse bwanji banja langa pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika?

Ngati mukuganiza, Ukwati wanga sukugwira ntchito, nditani? Khalani odekha, kwakanthawi, siyani kufunafuna mayankho amomwe mungabwezeretsere banja lanu pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika. Chinthu choyamba muyenera kuchita kukhala woona mtima ndi mnzanuyo. Khalani pansi kuti mulankhule m'malo abata komanso panokha.

Pambuyo pokambirana, sankhani njira yomwe mungatsatire kuti mubwezeretse banja lanu; ngati angafunefune chithandizo cha mabanja kapena ngati angapite ku gulu lothandizira; ngati apatukana kwakanthawi kapena ngati atakhala limodzi modzipereka kuti asakangane.

Chifukwa chiyani kusakhulupirika kwa akazi muukwati?

Musanadziwe momwe mungapulumutsire ukwati wanga pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika, muyenera kufunsa zomwe zimayambitsa kusakhulupirika kwa akazi muukwati. Zimangopitilira chilakolako chofuna kugonana popeza azimayi amakonzekera bwino kwambiri ndi ndani, pati, ndi momwe angachitire chigololo.

Zomwe zimayambitsa kusakhulupirika kwa akazi muukwati zitha kukhala izi:

• Monga kubwezera kusakhulupirika musanalowe m'banja.
• Kuthawa chizolowezi ndikubwerera kudzimva wokondedwa ndi wokondedwa.
• Mkazi akakhala wosakhulupirika m'banja, zimachitika makamaka chifukwa amasungulumwa chifukwa mwina simumampatsa chidwi chokwanira kapena chikondi chomwe amafunikira.

Momwe mungapangire kuti mkazi wanga ayambirenso kukondana?

Kodi mumadabwa momwe mungabwezeretse mkazi wanga pambuyo pa kupatukana kapena momwe mungapezere chikondi cha mkazi wanga? Nawa maupangiri amomwe mungakumbukire za chikondi chomwe chinawapangitsa kukhala ogwirizana:

• Mupange iye kumverera wokongola ngakhale iye sali. Muuzeni kuti zovala zomwe wavala zimawoneka bwino kwa iye kapena kuti mumakonda tsitsi lakelo.
• Lekani kuganiza nthawi zonse: momwe mungabwezeretse mkazi wanga pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika. Izi zidzakupangitsani kuti mukulakwitsa.
• Funsani za tsiku lake ndikumumvera osafuna kuthana ndi mavuto ake.
• Mulimbikitseni kukwaniritsa zolinga zake. Muuzeni zambiri tsiku lililonse.

Kodi ndingabwezeretse bwanji chikondi cha amuna anga?

Momwe mungapangire kuti amuna anga ayambenso kukondana? kapena ndimapangitsa bwanji kuti amuna anga azikondana tsiku lililonse? mwina ndizovuta zomwe zimakonda mutu wanu pafupipafupi. Nawa maupangiri amomwe mungabwezeretse wokondedwa wanu pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika:

• Chokani kwa iye kwakanthawi. Chifukwa chake mumadzifunsa: ndingapangitse bwanji kuti mwamuna wanga ayambirenso kukondana naye ngati sindili pafupi naye? Nkhaniyi ndiyosavuta: mumasiya kumuganizira, ndipo mumachotsa malingaliro anu momwe mungabwezeretse mwamuna wanga ngati ali ndi mkazi wina. Osamuvutitsa; amamva kusapezeka kwanu, ndipo mumakhala chinthu chofunidwa.
• Yambitsaninso kulumikizana. Pokhapokha akayamba kukufunani, mudzionetsa kuti ndinu otetezeka, osangalala, komanso olimba mtima. Chithunzichi cha inu chidzamupangitsa kukumbukira chifukwa chake adakusankhani kukhala mkazi wake.

Momwe mungabwezeretse amuna anga ngati ali ndi wokondedwa?

Tikudziwa kuti mukusaka momwe mungapindulitsire mwamuna wanga, koma pokhumudwa, simupeza chilichonse. Chifukwa chake chinthu choyamba muyenera kuchita ndikung'ung'uza kumverera kwanu mthupi lanu.

Lekani kufunafuna upangiri wamomwe mungabwezeretse mwamuna wanga. Chotsani malingaliro anu olakwika (kudziimba mlandu, mkwiyo, chisoni, kusowa chiyembekezo) ndikuyamba kuganizira momwe mungabwezeretse amuna anu, osamupempha.

Konzekerani. Tengani nthawi kwa iye kuti muwone zomwe akusowa. Osamunena zolakwa zake, ndipo musakangane. Osataya konse ulemu wanu mukakumana ndi wokondedwa wanu. Kumbukirani kuti ndiye winayo, ndipo vuto ndi, pamapeto pake, mwamuna wanu.

Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika m'banja?

1. Ganizirani za moyo wanu. Khalani ndi nthawi yoganizira zomwe mukufuna kuchita komanso zomwe zingakupindulitseni. Fotokozerani malingaliro anu ndi momwe mukumvera.
2. Amakhululuka. Ndibwino kuti tikupatseni pamene mukufunafuna njira zothetsera chiwembu m'banja. Kupeza olakwa sikungathetse mavutowa.
3. Akuyankhula. Zowonekera pang'ono, koma muyenera kulankhula ndi mnzanu moona mtima kwathunthu komanso modekha. Dziwani zomwe zikuchitika muukwati wanu.
4. Konzaninso kuthekera kwa ubalewo. Ngati mungadzifunse kuti, Kodi ndingateteze bwanji banja langa pamavuto? Njira imodzi yochitira izi ndi kuganiziranso zolinga zanu monga banja ndi kubwerera ku maziko a chibwenzi: chibwenzi ndi zina zomwe zimakukumbutsani chifukwa chomwe mumakhalira limodzi.
5. Pitani kuchipatala. Ili ndi upangiri wachidule, koma ndiabwino kwambiri omwe tingakupatseni, kuti mudziwe momwe mungabwezeretsere banja lanu pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika. Iwathandiza kuwongolera kudzidalira kwawo komanso kudzidalira.

Kodi mungatani kuti muchiritse kusakhulupirika m'banja?

Tidawerengadi za kusakhulupirika m'banja, koma tikakhala kuti tili nawo, timangoganiza: Kodi ndingabwezeretse bwanji banja langa zikatha izi?

Chowonadi sichovuta, koma ndikudzipereka kwa onse awiri, mutha kupita patsogolo. Ayenera kudziwa kuti adzakhala ndi masiku abwino komanso oyipa, kuti ndi pang'onopang'ono komanso zopweteka, kuti ayenera kugonja ndipo angafune thandizo lakunja.

Kodi mungatani kuti muthane ndi banja langa nditachita chigololo?

Ngati ndinu osakhulupirika, chinthu choyamba ndikuganiza chifukwa chomwe mulili osakhulupirika m'banja komanso chomwe chidakupangitsani kuphwanya malonjezo anu. Mukazindikira, funani thandizo kuti mupewe kuchita izi. Yesetsani kumvetsetsa mnzanuyo, khalani oona mtima, yankhani zomwe ndikufunsani, ndipo phunzirani kunyengerera.

Ngati mwabedwa, siyani kulingalira za momwe mungabwerenso ukwati pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika. Yesetsani kukhululuka, kenako mutha kupita patsogolo kukamanganso ubale wanu.

Malangizo obwezera ukwati wanga

Apa tikukubweretserani njira zisanu zamomwe mungathetsere mavuto m'banja:

1. Lankhulani ndi mnzanu tsiku lililonse.
2. Kumbukirani kuti kugonana ndikofunika. Ngati sanachite motere kwanthawi yayitali, abambo amaganiza kuti wokondedwa wawo sakusangalatsanso zogonana ndipo akazi sakuwakondanso okondedwa wawo.
3. Phunzirani kuwona zinthu zabwino tsiku lililonse mwa mnzanu ndikumuuza.
4. Yambirani zolinga zanu zofananira ndikuzikwaniritsa. Zitha kukhala kuchokera pakuchita zolimbitsa thupi kupita ku bizinesi.
5. Pezani mlangizi wa mabanja. Zitha kukhala zochokera ku mpingo wanu kapena wothandizira. Chofunikira ndikuti mukhale wina wodziwika pamutuwu ndipo mukudziwa momwe mungabwezeretsere mavuto m'banja.

Momwe mungabwezeretsere banja mukatha kupatukana?

1. Kulankhula. Kulankhula za zonse zomwe zimachitika kumathandiza kwambiri. Kumbukirani kuti ngati munakwatirana, ndichifukwa panali chikondi kale, ndipo sizomwe zimasowa mwachangu; kumangodzazidwa ndi kulumikizana koyipa.
2. Patten amathetsa mavuto. Sayenera kusiyidwira mtsogolo, koma funsani mayankho akangowonekera kuti asadzipezere mkwiyo kapena kukumbukira zoipa.
3. Zotuluka. Tonsefe tili ndi malingaliro osiyana, koma kukhalira limodzi ngati banja kumatanthauza kuphunzira kugonja ndi kuvomereza mnzake monga momwe alili, ndi mphamvu zake ndi zofooka zake. Ngati mukuganiza za momwe mungakonzekere banja langa, ndikofunikira kuti mulingalire.

Kodi mungabwezeretse bwanji banja pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika?

Ngati simukudziwa momwe mungathanirane ndi kusakhulupirika m'banja, koma mukufuna kubwezeretsa ubalewo, tsatirani malangizo awa:

• Landirani zomwe zinachitika. Simungathe kubwerera mmbuyo ndikuletsa kusakhulupirika. Landirani momwe mukumvera kuti muthe kuthana nazo ndikuthana ndi ululu.
• Fotokozani. Mosasamala momwe mumachitira, tulutsani zonse zomwe mumamva mkati. Ngati ndinu wolakwayo, lolani mnzanuyo anene chilichonse chomwe anganene ndipo musachepetse momwe akumvera.
• Ganizirani muli nokha. Ndibwino kwa nonsenu, osakhulupirika kuti amvetsetse zomwe adachita komanso kuti onyengawo athe kugaya zonse zomwe zikuchitika.
• Amakhululuka.

Thandizani kupulumutsa banja langa: 3 njira zochitira

1. Unikani ubalewo. Yambirani kuzindikira zomwe inu ndi mnzanu simukugwirizana, kusiyana, komanso malingaliro. Yesetsani kuwalankhula ndikukhala pansi ndi wokondedwa wanu kuti mupeze mayankho omwe angathetsere vutoli.
2. Dziperekeni ku chibwenzicho. Khalani limodzi, lankhulani zonse, osadzitsutsa kapena kudziweruza nokha, khalani ndi tsatanetsatane, khalani oleza mtima wina ndi mnzake ndikunena zoyamika kamodzi tsiku lililonse.
3. Funsani katswiri kuti akuthandizeni. Sititopa kukupatsani upangiri uwu. Zitha kuwathandiza kuti azigwira ntchito bwino pamaubwenzi apamtima komanso pamavuto awoawo.

Kodi mungapulumutse bwanji banja langa pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika? Kodi chimachitika ndi chiyani akakhala osakhulupirika m'banja? Zoyenera kuchita mukakhala osakhulupirika m'banja? Kodi kuthana ndi kusakhulupirika m'banja? Awa ndi mafunso omwe timakufotokozerani kuti mugwirizane nawo pakukonzanso ukwati ndikulimbitsa ubale.

Ngati mukudabwa, Ndingasunge bwanji banja langa nditakhala wosakhulupirika? kapena momwe ungabwezeretse mkazi wanga pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika?, mudzakwaniritsa izi ngati mnzanuyo ali wofunitsitsa kubwezeretsa malonjezo.

Ngati mwakonda nkhaniyi, musazengereze kugawana nawo pamawebusayiti anu.

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• 4. Pangani 100% kudzipereka kuti mupulumutse banja lanu
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• 5. Khalani oleza mtima ndi okondedwa wanu: mumuthandizeni kuti achiritse
• Upangiri kwa onyengedwa
• Malangizo kwa osakhulupirika
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• Malangizo kwa osakhulupirika
• 7. Sonyezani chifundo
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• Malangizo kwa osakhulupirika
• 8. Musayembekezere kuyanjananso mwachangu kapena kosavuta
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• 9. Funsani thandizo
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