Ngati pali chilichonse chomwe chimasokoneza kuthekera kwa azimayi kusangalala ndi moyo wawo, ndiye kukhala opanda mlandu . Ine (Carianne) ndavutikanso ndi izi kwazaka zambiri. Ndipo ngati ndiri wowona mtima: nthawi zina nthawi zina. Kodi gehena ndi chiani? Kuti ndikhoza kudzimva wamlandu pazinthu zomwe sindinachite ngakhale? Kuti ndimve kuti ndikulephera, pomwe ndili ndi zambiri m'mbale yanga. Izi sizomveka…
Wodziwika?
Kudzimva kuti ndiwe wolakwa kumatsimikizira kuti nthawi zonse umanyamula kena kake 'kolemetsa'. Zitha kukupangitsa kukhala wokhumudwa, kukupatsa nkhawa kapena kumverera kuti uchite china chake mosalekeza, kaya ndi choncho kapena ayi. Kudzimva kuti ndiwe wolakwa kumachotsa chisangalalo chako ndi mtendere mu mtima mwako…
Simukufuna kukhala monga choncho!
Umu ndi m'mene ndimafikira malingaliro akudzimva olakwa. Chifukwa chake ngati nanunso muli ndi chizolowezi cholepheretsedwera ndi mlandu, tengani cholembera ndi pepala ndikuchita izi:
Dziwani kuti mukumva kuti ndinu wolakwa
Pokhapokha mutadziwa china chake ndi pomwe mungasinthe. Khalani pansi ndikuganizira momwe mukuyendera. Zili bwino? Mukusangalala ndi chiyani? Zomwe sizikuyenda bwino? Ndi nthawi ziti pomwe mumamva kutopa, zoipa kapena zachisoni? Ndipo kumene: Mumadzimva kuti ndinu wolakwa nthawi yanji ndipo kwa ndani? Dziwani kuti ngati mumadzimva kuti ndinu wolakwa, simuli olakwa.
MULIBE Mlandu:
Lembani zomwe mumadziona kuti ndinu olakwa kenako ndikuganiza ngati izi zili zoyenera kapena ayi. Ngati mwalonjeza kuyimbira koma simunachite, mudzakhala olakwa. Pomaliza, Baibulo likuti, “Inde wanu akhale inde, ndi ayi wanu ayi (Mateyu 5:37). Kudzimva kuti ndiwe wolakwa kumagwira ntchito nthawi yomweyo ngati ukudziwa zomwe zimakukumbutsa kuti uyenera kuyimbabe.
Mulungu amafuna kuti tizikhala mogwirizana ndi malamulo ake, chifukwa amatipanga wokondwa kwambiri . Ndipo atha kugwiritsa ntchito malingaliro olakwa kukuwonetsani ndikumverera kuti mukuchita zinthu kapena kuti mukuganiza zinthu zomwe sizigwirizana ndi chifuniro chake. Sichinali pachabe kuti Adamu ndi Hava adadzimva olakwa nthawi yomweyo komanso manyazi chifukwa cha kusamvera kwawo. Komanso dziwani kuti Mulungu safuna kuti tizikhala ndi malingaliro olakwitsa! Amafuna kuti tiwone ngati zisonyezo kuti tikulakwitsa, kuti mwa chisomo chake tilandire chikhululukiro ndikukhalanso mwaufulu ndi chimwemwe.
Kugwira ntchito!
- Pepani ndikupempha (winayo ndi Mulungu) kuti akukhululukireni
- Bwezerani zomwe mwawononga
- Dzikhululukireni nokha ndikuphunzira kuchokera pazolakwa zanu
- Pangani ndandanda yabwinoko ndipo musalonjeze zambiri
- Werengani Baibulo ndikupemphera kuti Mulungu akupatseni malamulo ake mumtima mwanu
- Lolani Mzimu Woyera danga kusintha kwa Yesu
- Pangani nokha zomwe mungachite kuti mukhale ndi moyo wangwiro
MUDZIMVA KUTI MULIBE Mlandu:
Ngati mumadzimva kuti ndinu olakwa pazinthu zomwe simukuyenera kuimbidwa nazo, zidzakutayani mphamvu zosafunikira ndipo mdierekezi amatha kuzigwiritsa ntchito kukupangitsani kukhala ochepa komanso kukupangitsani kudzimvera chisoni. Kudziwona kuti ndiwe wolakwa pomwe ulibe mlandu sikuli kwa Mulungu!
Pali azimayi omwe amadziona kuti ndi olakwa chifukwa amapita ndi ana awo kumalo osungira ana ndikupita kukagwira ntchito iwowo, pomwe mwanayo akusangalala kumeneko. Pali azimayi omwe amadzimva kuti ndi olakwa, chifukwa ntchito inayake imafunika kuti ichitike mu tchalitchi ndipo alibe nthawi kapena luso lochitira iyo, ngakhale akuganiza kuti akuyenera kuchita (Eh… kodi anthu ena onse ali kuti akuchita izi ntchito? amathanso kuchita?). Ndipo palinso azimayi omwe amadzimva olakwa chifukwa cha nkhanza kapena nkhanza zomwe adazichita ali mwana, pomwe iwo alibe mlanduwo ... Zaka zakulemera zakundika m'miyoyo yawo, kotero sakudziwa momwe zimakhalira mfulu komanso wokondwa kuyima m'moyo.
Kugwira ntchito!
- Pempherani kuti Mulungu aonetse choonadi chake m'moyo wanu
- Khalani ndi malingaliro anu (m'Baibulo) ndikuchita zomwe mukuwona kuti ndizofunikira
- Osangotenga udindo wa mnzake, ngakhale m'maganizo
- Mverani maluso anu ndi zokhumba zanu ndipomozindikira sankhani zomwe munganene INDE kwa
- Sulani zolemerazo kuchokera kwa inu ndikukhala osangalala! (Afilipi 4: 4)
- Muzikhululuka munthu wina amene anakupangani mlandu
- Dzikhululukireni nokha kuti mwadzipangitsa kukhala olakwa
- Osadandaula za zomwe ena amaganiza za inu
- Mverani chikondi cha Mulungu pa inu
Kodi mukufuna kukhala ndi moyo kuyambira chisangalalo ndi ufulu?
Ndipo mumalakalaka kukhala ndi moyo kuchokera kukuyitanirani kwa Mulungu, osadziimba mlandu pazinthu zomwe zimakusangalatsani kwambiri?
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