Miyoyo Amapasa: Magawo, Mayeso, Kutulutsidwa, Kugonana, Zizindikiro Ndi Zambiri

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Miyoyo Amapasa: Magawo, Mayeso, Kutulutsidwa, Kugonana, Zizindikiro Ndi Zambiri

Kodi ndi chiyani miyoyo amapasa ? Kodi ukudziwa bwanji kuti wapeza mapasa moyo wako - kapena mapasa lawi? Werengani kuti mumve tanthauzo la zizindikilo, magawo ndi zina ...

Gawo 1 la kukula muubwenzi wachikondi chauzimu: Kudzikonda

Titha kukhala achidule za gawo loyamba. Gawoli ndi lokhudza inu nokha. Ndikufuna x, ndipo awa ndiwo malire anga. Kudalira ndichinsinsi mu gawo ili. Amuna ndi amuna, ndipo akazi ndi akazi. Izi ndizochokera kale. Mwachitsanzo, mkaziyu amafuna kukhala wokongola kwa mwamunayo kuti amufunenso.

Gawo 2 la kukula muubwenzi wachikondi chauzimu: Zina

Gawo 2 limadziwika ndi kudziyimira pawokha. Gawo ili lili pafupi kukula kwa ena, Kukula kwa dziko lapansi, kugawana, kugwira ntchito limodzi, kupereka kena kake kwa onse.

Izi zidabwera mwamphamvu mzaka za 60 ndi 70s. Mwamunayo adakhala womvera komanso wachikazi: anali ndi tsitsi lalitali, amafotokoza momwe akumvera, amapangira kuimba limodzi, kucheza, kumva momwe akumvera, kusangalala ndi chilengedwe, kuyang'ana kusamalidwa, kuvala mphete, Zinthu zonse zomwe akazi amachita nthawi zonse.

Mkazi adakhalanso wamwamuna. Amayi odziyimira pawokha omwe amapanga zisankho, amakhazikitsa malire, ndi zina zambiri. Amayi adamasulidwa ndikukhala olimbikira. Sakufunikanso kukhala okongola kwa amuna: amakhudzidwa ndi zinthu zopanda pake, monga mtendere, mgwirizano, ndi mgwirizano.

Gawo 2 ndi: Mukufuna izi, ndimakusamalirani. Simungakhale osangalala ndikupeza zomwe mukufuna. Muyeneranso kulingalira za zomwe ena akufuna.

Mu gawo lachiwiri, khoma limamangidwa mozungulira mtima wanu. Izi zikutanthauzanso kuti simunakonzekere kulowa mwa amuna kapena akazi. Mumalemekeza malire a enawo. Moyo wanga ndi wathunthu, koma ndikusowa kena kake…

Gawo 3 la kukula muubwenzi wachikondi chauzimu: Umodzi

Gawo 3 ndilosiyana kwambiri: Zili ndi kanthu chiyani zomwe ndikufuna (gawo 1) ndi zomwe mukufuna (gawo 2)? Zomwe zimakhala zofunika panthawiyi: Kodi tiyenera kuchita chiyani kuti tisonkhezere Chikondi kuti tithe kupereka mphatso zathu zakuya kuti Waumulungu azitha kuyenda kudzera mwa ife? Kodi Chikondi chitha kuyenda bwanji kudzera mwa tonsefe, ngakhale titafunika kusiya zofuna zathu?

Gawo lachitatu ili likuphatikiza kumasula malire ndikudzimasulira tokha. Mwaumanga kwa zaka zambiri, ndiye ndizovuta kuti uzisiye. Koma izi ndizofunikira chifukwa zomwe mukufuna ndikudzipereka kwathunthu ku mtima wa wina - kukhala wogwidwa ndi Chikondi chomwecho. Kodi mumapeza kuti chisangalalo ngati mumakhala mukumatumikira wamkulu? Mukukhala ndi china chokulirapo.

Gawo ili likufuna kuti inu kudalira wina ndi mnzake. Magawo awiri oyamba anali okhudzana ndikudzidalira: winayo akudziwa zomwe mukufuna. Koma tsopano tikudzipereka kuti tikhale ndi chikondi choposa zomwe timakonda.

Gawoli silingafunefune Chikondi ndi kuwala, koma za kupereka izo. Dziperekeni kudziko lapansi. Tiyenera kukulira izi. Mu gawo ili, muthandizana wina ndi mnzake mu ntchito ya wina ndi mnzake, wauzimu wa wina ndi mnzake, potsegulirana mitima.

Ili ndiye gawo la moyo wanga lomwe ndimapereka kwa mkazi wanga. Mumapatsa Chikondi. Izi zimapangitsa gawo 3 kukhala gawo Laumulungu. Mudzazindikira kuti zonse zikusintha. Mukumva: chilichonse chimadutsa. Mwachitsanzo, zomwe mumapanga mdziko lino lapansi, maubale anu Chifukwa chake perekani ndikusiya, perekani, musiyeni. Tonse tikudzipereka ndikupereka mphatso zathu zakuya za amuna ndi akazi. Moyo wanu wonse uli ngati mphatso kwa dziko lapansi, ngakhale nthawi zina simulandiridwa.

Kusungabe mphatso yanu kudziko lapansi ndi mavuto. Nthawi zonse perekani mphatso yakupezeka kwa aliyense.

Mugawo lachitatu ili, ndinu otanganidwa kupereka ufulu , Chikondi, ndi kuzama kwa mnzako. Simukuzifufuza nokha. Mwamunayo tsopano ndi wachikazi ndipo sakufunanso. Kuwala kulikonse, mawonekedwe aliwonse ndi inu, ndikumverera. Pamodzi, inu ndi akazi anu ndinu omasuka, pozindikira kuti ndinu. Ndiye kuunika kwanu, ndinu kuya kwake, ndipo palibe kusiyana. Chidziwitso (chachimuna) ndi kuwala (chachikazi) zaphatikizika.

Mumakhala amodzi wina ndi mnzake: musiya mtunda ndikusiyana. Takhala tikudziwana kuyambira kale. Takhala tikukondana nthawi zonse. Khalani amodzi ndi ine ngati mungayerekeze! Osandipatsa china kupatula mtima wanu. Mtima wanu wakuya. Mu gawo lachitatu, timamvanso kuti sitinasiyanitsidwe ndi anthu ena (inde tili pamlingo winawake).

Timakonda aliyense padziko lapansi. Mtima wathu, motero, umakhala chiwalo chovuta kutetezedwa kwambiri chifukwa chimamva. Tikukhala ndi chithunzi chamatsenga chosadziwika cha Chikondi.

Mu gawo lachitatu, mumayamba kukhulupirira mbali za mnzanu kuposa inu nokha. Iwe umakhala wathunthu mu inayo. Mumadzichotsa pakufunika kokhala ndi moyo wachikazi. Mumayamba kukhala athunthu polandila anzanu achikazi podalira izi. Amakhala theka lina lomwe mumayenera kumaliza.

Palibe chokongola kuposa mkazi mu gawo 3. Amalola kuwala kwake kwathunthu, podziwa kuti ndiwokongola kwathunthu: amagwiritsa ntchito kuti atsegule mwamunayo, kuti amulimbikitse ku Chikondi Chakuya. Palibe chomwe chimasangalatsa kuposa icho.

Mchigawo chino, mumamva: Ndine ndani? Wowonerera, mboni ya chilichonse. Simuli dzina lanu, thupi lanu, lomwe maselo ake amasiyana kotheratu chaka chilichonse, osati malingaliro anu, komabe ndinu munthu yemweyo.

Ndiye ndinu chinthu chokha chomwe sichisintha. Chidziwitso chokha. Kuzindikira kopanda malire ndi kwamphongo. Khazikani mtima pansi (kusinkhasinkha, kusinkhasinkha) pazomwe zidabwera musanabadwe, zomwe zilipo tsopano, ndi chilichonse chomwe mudzakhale mutamwalira. Ndinu ndani kuzungulira moyo uno? Khalani okhazikika pazomwe sizinayambepo ndipo sizingathe konse. Lolani zochita zanu zonse m'moyo wanu ziziyenderana ndikumverera kwa kuzindikira kwanga; Ndimakonda dziko lapansi, ndingapereke bwanji Chikondicho kudziko lapansi? Ndingafotokozere bwanji cholinga changa motere?

Izi zitha kuchitika kudzera munthawi yakusinkhasinkha, pemphero, mphindi zosadodometsa, kudzipatula… Mwachitsanzo, theka la ola kapena ola limodzi patsiku, kuti mulumikizane ndi cholinga chanu chakuya ndikulumikizananso ndi gwero lanu lenileni. Lekani kuchita, yambani kumva. Popita nthawi, maola, milungu, miyezi, ikubwerayi, gwero limenelo lidzalankhula nanu modekha ndikukuuzani zomwe likufuna kuchita. Kenako mumamva kukhudzidwa. Munapereka zonse zomwe mungathe.

Langizo 1 - Maziko a ubale ndikumvetsera zokhumba zanu zakuya, osati zokopa chabe

Ngati mungasankhe kukhala pachibwenzi, ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa kuti mkazi amene mwasankha sakufuna kukhala nambala 1 m'moyo wanu. Mwachibadwa amafuna kukhala wofunikira kwambiri pamoyo wanu, koma osati chinthu chofunikira kwambiri.

Amadziwa kuti ngati mubisa kapena kunyalanyaza cholinga chanu / moyo wanu kuti mumusangalatse ndikupanga nambala yake 1, mudzamuimba mlandu posachedwa. Pali kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa kukhala kuwunika kwa moyo wanu, kudzoza kwa mtima wanu, gwero la chisangalalo chanu… Ndipo mkazi yemwe simungakhale opanda. Zomalizazi ndizoletsa kwambiri.

Ngati simungakhale popanda iye, ngati amadalira pa iye, ngati mungopitiliza kupereka mphatso yanu kudziko lapansi pamene ali m'moyo wanu ndikusiya kukupatsani mphatso ngati sali m'moyo wanu, amva kufooka. Safuna mwana yemwe amamudalira. Amafuna mwamuna yemwe amapereka mphatso yake mokwanira kudziko lapansi komanso kwa iye ndikumulandira mokwanira pantchito yomwe yasankhidwa. Ndi gawo limodzi laichi. Koma sikokwanira.

Amafuna kumva kukhala mfulu, mwamuna yemwe amamukonda, mwamuna yemwe amamusankha kuposa magwero ena onse achikazi, mwamuna yemwe amamusankha ngati chuma chamoyo wake, yemwe amabweretsa kuwunika pamoyo wake wonse. Komanso mwamuna yemwe akupitiliza kupereka mphatso yake, ngakhale atasowa mawa. Mwamuna yemwe amasangalala ndi iye komanso wosangalala popanda iye, koma amasankha iye, wamphamvu komanso wokhutira ndi chidwi, pomwe angathe kupereka mphatso yake kudziko lapansi mwamphamvu, kapena popanda iye.

Ndiwo mtundu wamwamuna yemwe angamukhulupirire pamodzi ndi mtima wake. Mwamuna yemwe sagwadira zosowa zake, koma yemwe amapereka Chikondi. Mwamuna yemwe samanyalanyaza zikhumbo zakuya za mtima wake. Samazibwerera kungomusunga. Ndi mphatso yamoyo, kumugwira, kumukumbatira, kumukonda, kudziwa mtima wake wakuya.

Koma ngati achoka, akhoza kupitiliza kwathunthu. Akamwalira, mtima wake udzamva chisoni ndi kupweteka. Kwa miyezi ndi miyezi, ndikuvutika kwambiri ndi chisoni, koma pakati pamavutowo, amakhalabe ndi mwayi wonse wakukhalapo, ku Chikondi chomwe chimasuntha moyo wake, ali naye kapena wopanda iye. Ndipo atha kumukhulupirira.

Osamupanga iye yekhayo, chinthu chofunikira kwambiri m'moyo wanu. Mumulandire ngati munthu amene mungasankhe kukhala naye pafupi kwambiri. Landirani ngati chuma m'moyo wanu chomwe chimawala ndikukupatsani mtengo wa moyo womwewo. Mphamvu yokopa yomwe imakusangalatsani kudzuka pafupi nanu m'mawa, ndikupangitsa kukhala osangalala kukhala ndi moyo. Patebulo la kadzutsa, pomwe amaseka ndikukula mtima wanu. Akayang'ana m'maso mwanu, mkati mwazonse zomwe mukuchita, zolinga zanu, ndi zovuta zanu, mumamva m'maso mwake kudzipereka komwe kumakudabwitsani.

Langizo 2 - Lodzipereka Poyamba: Kugonana kumakwaniritsa cholinga chanu chauzimu

Polarity, polarity polarity, ndiye likasa lokopa pakati pa amuna ndi akazi. Ngati mumadziwika kuti ndinu achimuna anu, pangani zisankho, pindulani zolinga zanu… Mukatero mudzakopeka naye.

Ndi wosalakwa; zimachitika zokha. Nthawi zonse mudzakopeka ndi mphamvu yakugonana yomwe simulandila pamoyo wanu wonse. Pali kuthandizana: Ndikufuna kukutumikirani. Wokondedwa wanu akufuna kukutumikiraninso. Mukufuna kutumikirana momasuka ndi kuzama kwa wina ndi mnzake. Thandizani miyoyo ya anzanu kuti ichite bwino. Umu ndi momwe mungaperekere mphatso yanu kudziko lapansi. Umenewo ndiubwenzi wapamtima. Cholinga chanu ndi chiani? Kodi cholinga cha ubale wathu ndi chiyani? Dziwani cholinga chanu chachikulu. Iyi ndiye nangula yanu pazinthu zachabe, monga kubera.

Chachikazi ndiye mphamvu ya moyo. Wamphongo ndi chidziwitso chosasintha.

Nthawi zina mumayenera kumumvera: mupatseni mpata woti abweretse kukongola kwake ndi kuunika m'moyo wanu, mwachitsanzo, chifukwa amasankha mipando. Khulupirirani zachikazi mwa mnzanu. Lolani ukazi wanu ndipo mulowe mu mphamvu zanu zachimuna.

Nthawi zina zimakhala zosiyana, ndipo mutha kudalira mphamvu zake zachimuna. Koma nthawi zina muyenera kulowererapo kutengera kukhulupirika kwanu. Wachimuna ali ndi zosankha ndi malire chifukwa amayamikira mfundo zina mkatikati mwa mtima wake. Chifukwa chake, chachimuna nthawi zina chimayenera kunena chachikazi kuti: Ndimakukondani, ndipo sindingalole kuti muchite izi chifukwa ndimakukondani. Mtima wanga kwambiri umamva izi, ndipo ndikufuna ndikufunseni kuti mukhulupirire mtima wanga wakuya, ndichifukwa chake tili limodzi.

Werengani nkhaniyi zamphamvu yamwamuna ndi wamkazi,ndikudziwa kuti pali chifukwa chozama chakukhalapo kwa mphamvu yamwamuna ndi wamkazi. Mkazi yemweyo amene amakukopani kwambiri ndi mkazi yemweyo yemwe amakukhumudwitsani kwambiri m'malo ena amoyo wanu (komanso mosemphanitsa).

Mukafuna kumaliza ntchito, mphamvu yake yachikazi ikhoza kukhala chopinga kwa inu. Mwachitsanzo, sangamvetse zomwe mukutanthauza. Kodi chofunikira kwambiri kwa inu pachibwenzi ndi chiyani? Kugwirizana, kugonana, ana?

Pambuyo kutulutsa ge ndiye mphamvu ya opukutidwa, nchiyani chimakusungani inu limodzi ndiye? Chikondi Chakuya Mumamvera chisoni mayi yemwe ali pafupi nanu pabedi, ngakhale kuti chilakolako chogonana chosakanikirana ndi mphamvu zake chachepa.

Langizo 3 - Landirani zachiwerewere: iyi ndi mphatso yanu kwa wina ndi mnzake

Kugonana ndikofunikira: palimodzi, mumakwaniritsidwa. Tiyeni titenge chitsanzo cha 'kukhala mu tsopano.' Ichi ndi chikhalidwe chachikazi. Amuna amatha kutuluka pano, atalikiranipo, ndipo kuchokeraosiyanitsidwa, pangani chisankho choyenera kutengera chithunzi chokulirapo. Imaganizira zochitika zonse za nthawi yachiweruzo chake, kuzilola kukhululuka. Tiyerekeze kuti mkazi wake sananamepo m'moyo wake ndipo akunama zazing'ono koyamba, amatha kumukhululukira chifukwa amatha kukhala ndi moyo kuyambira nthawiyo ndikuwona chithunzi chonse.

Kumbali inayi, ngati mkaziyo ali muchikhalidwe chake chachikazi, zilibe kanthu ngati simunakhalepo zaka khumi. Mbiri yanu yazaka 10 zilibe kanthu. Palibe mbiri yake. Ndi tsopano kuwunika. Mukunama tsopano, ndiye iye ndi wokwiya tsopano, ndipo sakukhulupirirani tsopano, ngakhale mutanama nthawi ziro m'zaka khumi zapitazo. Wachimuna amatha kukhululukira zolakwa osati mphamvu zachikazi chifukwa zimapereka chinyezimiro choyera.

Ndipo zili bwino, ndipotu ndizofunika! Zachidziwikire, atha kulowa muulamuliro wake wamwamuna kuti akukhululukireni… Koma ndiye palibenso kupenyerera, kulibe zokopa zogonana.Kotero musayembekezere mkaziyokukhala monga inu, koma mulole iye akuwonetse kuzama kwa umphumphu wanu panthawiyi kwa inu. Imeneyo ndi mphatso yake kwa inu. Mwanjira imeneyi, mutha kukhala ndi chidwi chachikulu polarity, ndipo amawonetsa, mphindi ndi nthawi, umphumphu wanu kuti muthe kukula ndikukhwimitsa mtima wanu.

Ndiwo madzi, ndipo mwasokoneza madzi, ndipo makwinyawo akupitilira kugwedezeka. Ndiye mkazi yemwe amalingalira mwachindunji mfundo zanu kuti musinthe, ndi nzeru zake zakuya komanso momwe akumvera pakadali pano, poyankha inu. Koma amayankha chimodzimodzi pomupatsa kuya komanso Chikondi.

Mu mphindi iliyonse, muli ndi mwayi wotsegula kapena kutseka mtima wake. Mverani mtima wake ndipo chitani zomwe mungathe kuti mutsegule maluwa a mtima wake, kuti mulandire kupezeka kwanu mumtima ndi m'thupi mwake. Muthandizeni kuti amve Umulungu wake, kudzipereka kwake kozama ndi Mulungu komanso kudzipereka ndi Chikondi, kuti akupatseninso Chikondi chochokera mumtima mwake.

Mumakwaniritsa izi mwa kumva yankho la mzimayi munthawi yotsatira ndikutero mumadzikonza. Kuphatikiza apo, mupatseni mphamvu: chachikazi chimakhala muulamuliro wa mphamvu (kotero osasamala, monga chidwi chokhazikika pazambiri, malingaliro, malonjezo amtsogolo, kapena zochitika). Mphamvu ndikuyenda, kulumikizana, kugwira, kukumbatirana, kukhudzana ndi maso, ndi zina zambiri.

Chinsinsi choperekera mtima wanu kwa mkazi sikuti muchezere nthawi koma pakadali pano. Nthawi zina mutha kutsegula thupi lake ndi kukhudza; nthawi zina ukhoza kutsegula mtima wake ndi nthabwala. Nthawi zina mutha kulowa mumoyo wake ndikumayang'anitsitsa. Landirirani, kuvina, kunyinyirika, kuseka mwachikondi, mwina kukumbatirana mwadzidzidzi, mwina kukumbatirana mwachikondi.

Lemekezani chachikazi polemekeza chachimuna chanu. Kodi mtima wanu umalumikizidwa ndi iye? Kodi minofu yanu ndiyofewa? Ndi mtima wanuosatetezekam'malo motetezedwa? Kodi mumamva kuyenda kwa thupi lake ngati kuti mukavina naye? Kodi mukupuma naye? Kodi mpweya wanu ndi wokwanira? Yang'anani iye m'maso. Landirani iye. Mumvereni; limbitsa mtima wako. Muzimva mumtima mwake. Pumani naye. Muzimva zokhumba za mtima wake. Lumikizani zokhumba zanu za mtima kwambiri ndi iye.

Langizo 4 - Pezani njira zina zolemekezera zachimuna ndi zachikazi muubwenzi wanu

Sikuti chachimuna chokha chimamalizidwa ndi mayankho ochokera kwachikazi: zomwezo zimagwiranso ntchito pachikazi. Wachikazi amaphunzira kudzera mu chilimbikitso ndi Chikondi. Chifukwa chake mumupatse mayankho: 'Nenani / chitani izi pafupipafupi! Ndikufuna kumva izi, mayi wopenga, bwera kuno kudzandikumbatira '. Chachikazi, nawonso, chimapereka mayankho apadera achimuna. Koma mupatseni moyenera zomwe amafunikira: kukumbatira, kupuma, kapena china chake chapanikizika. Koma ndikwanira. Ndikufuna malo anga, inunso mukufuna.

Osazengeleza kupereka mphatso yanu kudziko lapansi. Ichi ndi chikhumbo chamwamuna. Khalani ngati kuti muli ndi masiku atatu kuti mukhale ndi moyo. Cholinga chanu, cholinga chanu, chiyenera kukhala chotsimikizika nthawi zonse. Siziyenera kusintha kuti mkaziyo azidalira kuti mwamunayo amadziwa mumtima mwake. Ayenera kumverera kuti wakhazikika pazomwe sizisintha. Kusintha ndichikazi? Zosintha zonsezi mwa amayi ndi gule wake. Landirani kuvina kumeneko.

Nthawi zina mumayesa zachikazi momwe mumamvekera bwino cholinga chanu, pochikankhira. Akufuna kukusokonezani, ndipo amasangalala akapeza kuti sangathe.

Lolani malingaliro anu ndi thupi (ziwalo zosinthika) zikhale chiwonetsero chakuya kwanu. Lolani malingaliro anu osinthika akhazikike kuchokera mumtima mwanu, ndipo musangomulola kuti akhale 'osasinthika.' Mkazi ayenera kumva kuti kuti athe kukukhulupirira. Mkazi amatha kumva mukamachokera mumtima mwanu, kuzama kwanu, ndipo amatha kumva pomwe sayenera kukukhulupirira chifukwa umachokera pacholinga chapamwamba.

Ngakhale zikafika pachibwenzi, mutha kulemekeza mulingo wachimuna kapena chachikazi mwa akazi. Akazi osamala amakopa amuna oyenera ndikufuna kugonana mwakachetechete. Amayi / amuna achikazi kwambiri amafuna kugonana kosangalatsa.

Langizo 5 - Lumikizani uzimu wanu ndi ubale wanu: chifukwa chiyani chibwenzi ndichinthu chauzimu?

Akamva mtima wanu, amafuna kumva mtima wa Mulungu. Mukuzama kwanu, akufuna kumva kuzama kwa Mulungu. Akufuna kumva Umulungu womwe, womwe umakulimbikitsani ndikulimbikitsa chidwi chanu chokhala nawo. Amafuna kutengedwa ndi Mulungu akamakondedwa ndikutengedwa ndi inu. Chifukwa chake Mulungu ndiye wofunikira kwambiri kwa iye komanso kwa inu.

Chokhumba chake chachikulu ndikumva zaumulungu. Izi sizingafanane ndi mawu. Izi ndi zomwe zimakhala mwa ife tonse. Chikhumbo chanu chachikulu si iye. Onetsani kudzipereka kwanu kwakukulu: Ndimakukondani, koma ndimakonda Mulungu koposa kukuthamangitsani. Chifukwa chake ngati mukufuna kukhala ndi ine, ndili pano. Ndidzakukondani; Ndikudzipereka kuti ndidzakhala ndi inu, kukutumikirani m'dzina la Mulungu. Ndimapereka ndipo ndikufuna zonsezo kwa inu. Koma ngati simukufuna, inenso sindifuna.

Izi ndi zomwe akufuna: kukhumba kwanu kwakukulu, komwe atha kukhalanso gawo lake. Samafuna kukhala chinthu chokha kwa inu, ndipo safuna kumva kuti ndiwofunika kwa inu kuposa Mulungu.

Akufuna kusankha wina yemwe amakonda kubweretsa chifuniro cha Mulungu padziko lapansi, kudzipereka kwanu kuti mubweretse Chikondi ndi kuunika kudziko lapansi, kuti atenge nawo gawo. Samafuna kukhala yekhayo, nambala 1 m'moyo wanu. Chifukwa chake sankhani bwenzi lomwe likufuna kukhala nanu. Iye akufuna kukhala gawo la izo.

Ngati mumutsata pomwe sakumva cholinga chanu chakuya mumtima mwanu, mukunenadi kuti: 'Ndimakhala ndikulakalaka kwambiri. Zachidziwikire, ndimakufunani. Ndiwe wokongola kwambiri komanso wokoma mtima. Ndikufuna kukhala nanu, ngakhale ndataya moyo wanga, cholinga changa. Sindikudziwa komwe ndikupita; Mulungu sangapeze inu mumtima mwanga. Mukumva zilakolako zanga zapamwamba, koma ziyenera kukhala zokwanira…?

Mkazi wotero sangakusankhireni. Mwanjira imeneyi, monga cholinga mmoyo wanu, kodi mwapambana mkazi yemwe mumafuna? Sizabwino monga momwe mumaganizira. Bizinesi monga mwachizolowezi. Ngati mukuganiza kuti china chake chingasinthe, ndiye kuti mukulakwitsa.

Zomwe mumakumana nazo pafupi ndi munthu wina kapena chinthu zimangowonetsa chidwi chanu komanso kuthekera kwanu kuti mukhale ndi Mulungu. Ndizokhudza kuphatikiza moyo wanu ndi malingaliro anu ndi ena. Kupambana kwanu muukwati, bizinesi yanu, komanso thanzi lanu, ndikogwirizana ndi zomwe mumakumana nazo za Mulungu. Simungapitirire ndi china chilichonse kapena wina aliyense kupatula momwe mungapitirire ndi Mulungu. Ngati kudalira kwanu Mulungu kuli kofooka, kapena kulibe konse, ndiye kuti kudalira anthu ena ndikudalira kwanu kudzakhalanso chimodzimodzi. Ichi ndichifukwa chake muyenera kulingalira za ubale wanu ndi Mulungu musanaganize za ubale wina.

Langizo 6 - Zochita zapabanja zomwe mungachite ndi mnzanu - Kodi mnzanga ali nane pano motani?

  • Pa nthawi yopuma, mumayang'ana diso lakumanzere la mnzanu.
  • Mverani malo okuzungulirani. Mverani mtima wa mnzanu, monga msodzi akumva nsomba m'madzi. Chikondi, kukhala,
  • palibe kulekana; pali pano Wauzimu yemwe amawona Umulungu, akudzizindikiritsa yekha mumtima wa mnzake.
  • Mukumva momwe wokondedwa wanu alili ndi inu, ndiye: kodi akumva zochuluka motani za inu? Pamlingo wa 1 mpaka 10?
  • Choyamba, mumachita izi powunika kukhalapo mwakachetechete; pakapita kanthawi, mnzake wogwira nawo ntchitoyo amayamba kuyimba manambala. Kenako mumachitanso mwakachetechete. Kodi mukuwona kuti wokondedwa wanu kulibe (pansi pa 7)? Ndi manja anu, mumamuyimbira foni kuti mudzakhalepo. Chonde bwererani kwa ine. Ndiyenera kuti ndikumvereni; Ndiyenera kumva mtima wanu mochuluka.
  • Chitani izi tsopano nthawi yomweyo, kuti musayendenso. Umu ndi momwe timaphunzitsirana.
  • Malizitsani ndi uta kapena manja osavuta kunena: zikomo, ndikuyamikira kuchita izi nanu - uta wosavuta wothokoza.

Osamachita masewerawa nokha ndi wokondedwa wanu, koma tengani mphamvu za ntchitoyi pochita ndi aliyense. Nthawi iliyonse mukabisira anzanu izi, mumaletsa mphatso yanu, mphatso yakupezeka. Kubisa mphatso yanu ndikumva kuwawa. Mwinamwake munali mutatopa panthawiyi, kapena mwina simunadziwe kuti ndizotheka.

Kusiyanasiyana: funsani, Kodi ntchito yanu yozama kwambiri ndi iti? Osangoganizira zomwe anzanu anena, koma mverani ngati zikuchokera mumtima mwake. Nenaninso pamlingo wa 10. Kodi wokondedwa wanu alipo nanu pamene akunena izi? Ndinu cholinga chanu; mumakhala moyo. Nthawi zonse nenani zikomo mukamaliza kuwerengera ndikuuzanso ntchito yanu. Mukuti cholinga chanuWABWINOpa ntchitoyi.

Kusintha: pumirani, mverani mtima wake, yang'anani mu diso lake lakumanzere, mumve kuti, mumtima mwake, amafuna kudziwika. Kuti muwonekere, kumva kuti mukufuna kulowa mwa iye, kuti mukufuna kumva mtima wake, monga momwe alili, zakuya kuposa momwe angadzimvere kudzera mwa inu. Iyi ndi mphatso yomwe okondedwa amatha kupatsana.

Kusiyanasiyana: nenani wina ndi mnzake: Ndikufuna inu. Chitani chimodzimodzi ndi kusiyanasiyana kwam'mbuyomu. Perekani ndemanga pamlingo wa 1 mpaka 10.

Langizo 7 - Zochita zapabanja zomwe mungachite ndi mnzanu - Bwalo lozungulira

Khalani kapena imani ndi mimba zanu limodzi. Wothandizana naye amapuma, ndipo ngati bwalo, kupuma kumabwereranso kudzera m'fupa la mnzake. Kupumira mkati mwanu maliseche, kumverera moyo, ndikudzaza matupi athu. Ikani lilime lanu pakamwa kuti mutseke magetsi.

Muthanso kulunzanitsa kupuma kwanu motere mwa kukhala ndi nsana mukuyang'anizana. Khalani kwathunthu motsutsana wina ndi mzake ndikumva mpweya wanu kuyenda kuchokera pansi mpaka pamwamba. Imvani momwe mpweya wanu umayendera limodzi motere. Pomaliza, imiraninso ndikulumikiza mikono yanu ndikukweza mwamphamvu - misana ikugwirabe.

Langizo 8 - Zochita zapabanja zomwe mungachite ndi mnzanu - Kusuntha kwanu kumodzi ndimayendedwe anga

  • Khalani moyang'anizana ndipo musakhudzane.
  • Pumirani kwambiri kudzera m'mimba mwanu ndi crotch.
  • Tsekani maso anu ndikumverera kukhalapo kwa wina ndi mnzake osagwirana. Kodi mumamverera kuti ndinu munthu? Kutentha?
  • Tsegulani maso anu ndikuyang'ana pa Chikondi chomwe mumachiwona patsogolo panu, chomwe chimakukondani. Mumadziwona nokha ngati chikondi chimodzi: chikondi chimodzi, kumadziyang'ana pawokha. Mukudziwa Chikondicho, ndipo ndinu Chikondi chimenecho.
  • Gwirani manja anu awiri patsogolo panu. Pamwamba pang'ono pa mawondo anu, maso adakali otseka. Kwezani dzanja lanu lamanzere ngati mutagwira apulo ndikutsitsa dzanja lanu lamanja ngati kuti mukusisita galu.
  • Gwiranani mmanja mopepuka tsopano, lolani manja anu akupsompsonane, akhale olumikizidwa.
  • Kutulutsa mpweya kumabweretsa mbali imodzi kwa inu ndi mbali inayo kutali ndi inu. Ndikutulutsa mpweya, umazunguliranso. Ndiko kuyenda kwa sitima, titero.
  • Khalani ndi wina wosinthana kutsogolera.
  • Mverani manja a wina ndi mnzake bwino. Osagwira kapena kuthawa: mitengo ya kanjedza mwamphamvu palimodzi, modekha. Musagwire zala zanu.
  • Tsopano mupita kumalo osaloŵerera m'ndale - kumbuyo kwa gululi kupita pagulu lovina laulere mumlengalenga.
  • Mnzake wamkazi mozindikira amapereka kuunika kwa mtima wake kwa mwamuna mnzake. Imvani izi. Ichi ndiye Chikondi changa, ichi ndi kuwala kwanga. Amuna amalandira mwachangu.
  • Bwererani kumalo komwe sitimayi imalowerera ndale.
  • Tsopano mwamunayo amatsogolera kuvina. Ichi ndiye chidziwitso chakuya chomwe ndiyenera kupereka. Kuzindikira kwanga kozama, kopanda malire, komanso kopanda malire. Mayendedwe anu ndi amodzi ndi mayendedwe anga.

Tip 9 - Zochita zapaubwenzi zomwe mungachite ndi mnzanu - Ndinu munthu wabwino kwambiri

Ndaphunzira izi kuchokera kwa Dr. Vincent van der Burg wa UNLP. Pazochitikazi, mulipo ndi ena pomwe mukukhala nanu nthawi yomweyo.

  • Gwiranani manja ndi ayang'ane wina ndi mnzake kwa mphindi zisanu. Popanda masks ochezera monga kumwetulira kuti mubise zovuta zakukumana kumeneku. Wokondedwa m'modzi amalandira, mnzake amapereka. Wokondedwayo akuti pa mphindi zisanu izi: Ndiwe munthu wokongola. Wokalandira mnzake amakhala chete.
  • Ngakhale mulipo ndi enawo, cholinga sikutaya kumverera kwanu. Kuti muchite izi, chitani izi: Wothandizirana nayeyo ndi mnzake wolandila onse amakhala pakadali pano ndi awo kupuma kokhako. Amadzifufuzanso okha: zikundimva bwanji kulandira / kutchula izi? Kuphatikiza apo, mutha kusankha kuti mupite ndi chidwi chanu kwa anu mimba ndi / kapena pakati pa mtima wanu. Izi zimangokupatsani chidwi chathunthu kwa munthu winayo, ndendende chifukwa inu mumakhala chomwecho ndi kumverera kwanu komwe.
  • Kodi mukufuna kuzungulira kwina? Kenako tengani mpata pakati ndipo chitani ndi thupi lanu ndi malingaliro anu zomwe mukufuna kuti mumve kukhala kwanu ndikukhala nanu. Kodi mumakonda kuchita chiyani kwa inu nokha, kotero kuti mumamva omasuka ndipo ungakhale ndi iwe ngakhale bwinoko?
  • Kusintha kowonjezera / magawo omwe mungayesere: Yang'anani pamverero ('adzakhala ndi') Zomwe mumalandira kuchokera kwa mnzake. Kuphatikiza apo, pumani ndi mzake pamene mukuchita izi.

Chifukwa izi zimangotenga mphindi zisanu, ndizosatheka kuti tisachite izi tsiku lililonse.

Tip 10 - Kodi mumakonda malangizo a nkhaniyi? Zachokera pa ntchito ya David Deida

Ngakhale maudindo nthawi zina amangonena kuti ndi amuna okha, ndikukuwuzani kuti ndi komanso azimayi.

Mumatchulidwa kuti ndinu munthu pantchito yake, koma wolemba samasiyanitsa amuna ndi akazi. Amangosiyanitsa pakati pa mphamvu yamwamuna ndi wamkazi, ndipo izi zitha kukhala mwa amuna ndi akazi.

Mabuku a David Deida ndi malingaliro abwino pamayanjano (auzimu).

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